Ok so what does the wisdom of kabbalah say about relationships oh please explain it in your own words. Like what does it say about love and heartbreak. Thank you for answeringHow does kabbalah work in relationships?
There are not many kabalists on here, if any, although I want to study this. One well-known book is: 'key to the truth kabalah' by Franz Bardon. May or may not help with what you were looking for...just though I'd make a suggestion.How does kabbalah work in relationships?
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What is your philosophy about relationships?
Are people in your life to tell your secrets to?
Are people in your life to listen to your problems?
Are people in your life to listen to your complaints?
Are people in your life to life you up?
Are people in your life to be your counselor?
Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation?
What role do people play in your relationships?What is your philosophy about relationships?
Most all of life's lessons are learned through the relationships
we set in motion.
Some hermits seem to gain spiritually by avoiding relationships
but that is only delay. Learning to love our fellow man because
we are one is required prior to graduation.
Somewhere along the way, secrets will become non events.
Presently, all of your questions are true in my life.What is your philosophy about relationships?
A romantic sexual relationship is about personal development for all those involved, including any children or other partners (given openness, i'm not talking about secret affairs). It should be a haven and a challenge. That is, it should be a private utopia from which one can escape the world, but like a lever, a firm spot on which to stand from which one can move the world too, and a challenge in the sense that it should make both people better. It may also be temporary, and involve moving on to a higher plane with another person in order to avoid stagnation, but commitment might also be important, depending on the relationship. People are in my life so that i can help them and protect them from the worst the world can throw at them, so i can listen to them, be there for them and so on. In a relationship, i only have duties to the other person. They may choose to do things for me, but that isn't their role and it's beyond the call of duty.
since apparently y ou want a Q and A
What is your philosophy about relationships? They're tricky. Life goes to the strong.
Are people in your life to tell your secrets to? No.
Are people in your life to listen to your problems? Some.
Are people in your life to listen to your complaints? Some.
Are people in your life to live you up? Not really. One teacher, though.
Are people in your life to be your counselor? One.,
Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation? One or two.
What role do people play in your relationships? sounding boards and some appreciation.
WE share ...that is what the beauty of my relationships are...a weaving...of love....the light and the dark...I choose love...to love and to be loved...both in the rain and in the sunshine of life! And to each life the rain falls as does the sunshine shines.! The tides some and go...and if we are truly blessed the seventh tide carries us into graces....untold and unexpected! I dance through the flows! ! :))
I tell people that everyone in my life brings me happiness...some by staying in it and some by getting the heck out of it. We all have a bad day now and then, but I will not allow negative people to be in my life for any length of time. Life is just to short.
Relationships I've found operate very well for myself and other when it's a mutual transference of energy, bringing the energy higher.
Are people in your life to listen to your problems?
Are people in your life to listen to your complaints?
Are people in your life to life you up?
Are people in your life to be your counselor?
Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation?
What role do people play in your relationships?What is your philosophy about relationships?
Most all of life's lessons are learned through the relationships
we set in motion.
Some hermits seem to gain spiritually by avoiding relationships
but that is only delay. Learning to love our fellow man because
we are one is required prior to graduation.
Somewhere along the way, secrets will become non events.
Presently, all of your questions are true in my life.What is your philosophy about relationships?
A romantic sexual relationship is about personal development for all those involved, including any children or other partners (given openness, i'm not talking about secret affairs). It should be a haven and a challenge. That is, it should be a private utopia from which one can escape the world, but like a lever, a firm spot on which to stand from which one can move the world too, and a challenge in the sense that it should make both people better. It may also be temporary, and involve moving on to a higher plane with another person in order to avoid stagnation, but commitment might also be important, depending on the relationship. People are in my life so that i can help them and protect them from the worst the world can throw at them, so i can listen to them, be there for them and so on. In a relationship, i only have duties to the other person. They may choose to do things for me, but that isn't their role and it's beyond the call of duty.
since apparently y ou want a Q and A
What is your philosophy about relationships? They're tricky. Life goes to the strong.
Are people in your life to tell your secrets to? No.
Are people in your life to listen to your problems? Some.
Are people in your life to listen to your complaints? Some.
Are people in your life to live you up? Not really. One teacher, though.
Are people in your life to be your counselor? One.,
Are people in your life for conversation and stimulation? One or two.
What role do people play in your relationships? sounding boards and some appreciation.
WE share ...that is what the beauty of my relationships are...a weaving...of love....the light and the dark...I choose love...to love and to be loved...both in the rain and in the sunshine of life! And to each life the rain falls as does the sunshine shines.! The tides some and go...and if we are truly blessed the seventh tide carries us into graces....untold and unexpected! I dance through the flows! ! :))
I tell people that everyone in my life brings me happiness...some by staying in it and some by getting the heck out of it. We all have a bad day now and then, but I will not allow negative people to be in my life for any length of time. Life is just to short.
Relationships I've found operate very well for myself and other when it's a mutual transference of energy, bringing the energy higher.
Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
';Scorpio moon feels a whole range of powerful emotions - desire, jealousy, rage, fierce loving attachments or intense loathing -and Scorpio cannot live without relating on a very deep, intimate level, which often includes conflict and confrontation. In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will (consciously or unconsciously) provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity';.Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
oh i've definitly noticed it. Although i thought my dramatic and confrontational side was my leo venus. But i have certainly noticed it. I know that a relationship with me is never going to be a walk in the park. i've noticed i say things highly unnessary just to get a rise from people i love, if my partner is ignoring me at an event, i will leave abruptly.. and just tell them i thought they were busy. I really do test them because it seems unlikely that they will feel for me what i feel for them.
I remember when i was in a relationship with a guy i loved, but did not feel like we connected and we had a fight. And i said ';I'm off to find something better'; and walked home. The next morning i called him and chattd away and he seemed to be crying? did i do this to him just for fun? i asked him ';whats wronge?';, he said i broke up with him last night and i said ';no i didn't'; .. .
i will say things like you don't love me because i sincerely beleive this. While i say this i i do put it forward in a rather playful way. I'd hate anyone to know how serious i am about forming a connection with this person. Often people think i am playing head games. But i really am in it to be with someone who has enough energy and stamina to overcome my crazy ways. I often feel once someone has done the hard yards, i know he is worthy of my passion and love. And i will do everything to make them happy. If they arn't returning the favour i will ignor them or i will lose it.
It seems silly, because relationships are about give and take.. sometimes your the one always giving, sometimes they are the one always giving..However a scorpio moon feels their passion and love is boundless.. i will literly obsess over making us happy. And therefore, i really expect to know that they appreciate me, and that i am not wasting my energy. This is expressed by various ups and downs that i hope they will withstand.
sometimes i feel the huge ego of the scorpio is highly difficult, but i know first hand that there is no one who will feel as intense love and have as fierce loyalty about another person as those with scorpio placements.
(i'd hate to date me lol)Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
Scorp moon here! My sun is a Leo. Im a hot mess! I can seriously confuse myself sometimes. At one moment I can feel truly in love and the next I can drop him like a bad habit. I do feel all the break up pain but me being a Leo with lots of pride, will not make the first move on getting back together. I do feel like my love is very special and if you even get a taste of my love, you should feel special. If I dont receive or see that same devotion im putting out, I will drop them and move on. They say Scorps love whole hearted and hate whole hearted...there is not alot of grey area with me. I broke alot of hearts in my day and made alot of stupid mistakes. I believe whoever ends up with me, it will take someone a little crazy and a little grounded mixed in with a whole lot of patience.
while i do thrive on intensity i don't go out of my way to create any drama. but your right once someone has me hooked and i know i want to stay with them i need the relationship to be deep and intimate but not clingy. yes by nature our emotions are powerful but we learn to control them as well.zits
oh i've definitly noticed it. Although i thought my dramatic and confrontational side was my leo venus. But i have certainly noticed it. I know that a relationship with me is never going to be a walk in the park. i've noticed i say things highly unnessary just to get a rise from people i love, if my partner is ignoring me at an event, i will leave abruptly.. and just tell them i thought they were busy. I really do test them because it seems unlikely that they will feel for me what i feel for them.
I remember when i was in a relationship with a guy i loved, but did not feel like we connected and we had a fight. And i said ';I'm off to find something better'; and walked home. The next morning i called him and chattd away and he seemed to be crying? did i do this to him just for fun? i asked him ';whats wronge?';, he said i broke up with him last night and i said ';no i didn't'; .. .
i will say things like you don't love me because i sincerely beleive this. While i say this i i do put it forward in a rather playful way. I'd hate anyone to know how serious i am about forming a connection with this person. Often people think i am playing head games. But i really am in it to be with someone who has enough energy and stamina to overcome my crazy ways. I often feel once someone has done the hard yards, i know he is worthy of my passion and love. And i will do everything to make them happy. If they arn't returning the favour i will ignor them or i will lose it.
It seems silly, because relationships are about give and take.. sometimes your the one always giving, sometimes they are the one always giving..However a scorpio moon feels their passion and love is boundless.. i will literly obsess over making us happy. And therefore, i really expect to know that they appreciate me, and that i am not wasting my energy. This is expressed by various ups and downs that i hope they will withstand.
sometimes i feel the huge ego of the scorpio is highly difficult, but i know first hand that there is no one who will feel as intense love and have as fierce loyalty about another person as those with scorpio placements.
(i'd hate to date me lol)Scorpio moons: How much do you notice your unconscious side in relationships?
Scorp moon here! My sun is a Leo. Im a hot mess! I can seriously confuse myself sometimes. At one moment I can feel truly in love and the next I can drop him like a bad habit. I do feel all the break up pain but me being a Leo with lots of pride, will not make the first move on getting back together. I do feel like my love is very special and if you even get a taste of my love, you should feel special. If I dont receive or see that same devotion im putting out, I will drop them and move on. They say Scorps love whole hearted and hate whole hearted...there is not alot of grey area with me. I broke alot of hearts in my day and made alot of stupid mistakes. I believe whoever ends up with me, it will take someone a little crazy and a little grounded mixed in with a whole lot of patience.
while i do thrive on intensity i don't go out of my way to create any drama. but your right once someone has me hooked and i know i want to stay with them i need the relationship to be deep and intimate but not clingy. yes by nature our emotions are powerful but we learn to control them as well.
How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
I don't think I want to fall in love till I get married. I'm scared of all the heartbreak. In all of my relationships I've gotten to know the person quite well, but it just doesn't end well because I feel they don't understand me, when I thought they did.How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
The process IS painful, but it's the process. It makes us who we are, it teaches us what we like and what we dislike. It shows us what to look for and avoid in a relationships. The bad relationships make the good relationships good and without the stinkers I know I would have never found the man of my dreams and married him. It's true what they say; You can't ever have a rainbow without a little rain.
You have to take risks in life to really enjoy it. Life simply hasn't been lived if you don't get a little dirty in the process, do don't live like you are scared, live like you are scared to not live!How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
You can't pick when you fall in love. If you try not to fall in love now, you probably won't even MEET the person you want to marry.
Just use your head and try to determine whether the guy you're thinking of is compatible with you and would make a good husband, what personality traits he has, etc. and then try to let yourself be a bit more trusting if you find it.
I personally think it is worth loving someone and then experiencing the heartbreak that may or may not happen, than trying to make yourself not love them.
you just let it happen, and you are going to face heart break sometimes but your also going to face the most joyous of times that can't be put into words anyway just let it happen when it happens if your going out with a guy just don't take it to seriously. if you go out for like three years then you have a chance for getting married. but you shouldn't be afraid of heartbreak. and about them understanding you only your soul mate can fully understand you so you can't worry about that and you will find true love one day. so just let it happen and don't fear this! be strong! good luck!
No one wants to be heart broken but its the way life works, its the lessons you learn from those relationships that will help you. Love is not something that we can control, so we are naturally scared to take that BIG step. when you love someone you need to understand that clarity is important be clear about who you are and what you want from you partner, you have to open up and let them see the REAL you, is not something that can be done overnight...its will take time...you just need to be patient with them. you need to experience love and sadly loss to truly understand why a relationship doesn't work. communication is the key.
I hope this helps..Good luck!!
You can't NOT fall in love until you get married, or you'd never get married. You'd never love the guy enough to WANT to get married.
If you are really this afraid of heartbreak, maybe you should just take some ';me'; time and not have relationships. When you find a guy worth dating, you'll know he's right.
Y would you want to stop yourself from loving people. That would be an extremely lonely existence. Heartbreak happens you need to get over it. But you will find someone who ';gets'; you someday and who knows it may be sooner than you think. If you are really broken up about a past relationship i'd say get some professional help to sort it out. Good luck and don't give up on love just yet.
You can never stop yourself from falling in love. It is just something that happens. You can try to keep your guard up more and be more alert but that's about it.
Some people fall in love once and then they are with that person forever.
Others, like you and I, might go through being in love a dozen times before we meet ';the one';.
Just hang in there and be optimistic. :)
i don't think thats a good plan.
because seriously in the future. you wouldn't know what to do when u do get confused. face it now and later on in the future you will know how to handle things better.
be strong. right now honestly your being weak.
everyone is scaried of heartbreaks but people are still out there finding that person.
U can't help when or who we will fall in love with....just cuz u been in bad relationships before doesn't mean that u r doomed... Relax that's part of life... Eventually u will find the man of ur dreams.... Remember u have to go through alot of frogs to find ur prince
Well you answered your own question. Stop wasting your time on people and enjoy your life. Relationships will always be there.
The process IS painful, but it's the process. It makes us who we are, it teaches us what we like and what we dislike. It shows us what to look for and avoid in a relationships. The bad relationships make the good relationships good and without the stinkers I know I would have never found the man of my dreams and married him. It's true what they say; You can't ever have a rainbow without a little rain.
You have to take risks in life to really enjoy it. Life simply hasn't been lived if you don't get a little dirty in the process, do don't live like you are scared, live like you are scared to not live!How can I stop myself from loving people in my future relationships?
You can't pick when you fall in love. If you try not to fall in love now, you probably won't even MEET the person you want to marry.
Just use your head and try to determine whether the guy you're thinking of is compatible with you and would make a good husband, what personality traits he has, etc. and then try to let yourself be a bit more trusting if you find it.
I personally think it is worth loving someone and then experiencing the heartbreak that may or may not happen, than trying to make yourself not love them.
you just let it happen, and you are going to face heart break sometimes but your also going to face the most joyous of times that can't be put into words anyway just let it happen when it happens if your going out with a guy just don't take it to seriously. if you go out for like three years then you have a chance for getting married. but you shouldn't be afraid of heartbreak. and about them understanding you only your soul mate can fully understand you so you can't worry about that and you will find true love one day. so just let it happen and don't fear this! be strong! good luck!
No one wants to be heart broken but its the way life works, its the lessons you learn from those relationships that will help you. Love is not something that we can control, so we are naturally scared to take that BIG step. when you love someone you need to understand that clarity is important be clear about who you are and what you want from you partner, you have to open up and let them see the REAL you, is not something that can be done overnight...its will take time...you just need to be patient with them. you need to experience love and sadly loss to truly understand why a relationship doesn't work. communication is the key.
I hope this helps..Good luck!!
You can't NOT fall in love until you get married, or you'd never get married. You'd never love the guy enough to WANT to get married.
If you are really this afraid of heartbreak, maybe you should just take some ';me'; time and not have relationships. When you find a guy worth dating, you'll know he's right.
Y would you want to stop yourself from loving people. That would be an extremely lonely existence. Heartbreak happens you need to get over it. But you will find someone who ';gets'; you someday and who knows it may be sooner than you think. If you are really broken up about a past relationship i'd say get some professional help to sort it out. Good luck and don't give up on love just yet.
You can never stop yourself from falling in love. It is just something that happens. You can try to keep your guard up more and be more alert but that's about it.
Some people fall in love once and then they are with that person forever.
Others, like you and I, might go through being in love a dozen times before we meet ';the one';.
Just hang in there and be optimistic. :)
i don't think thats a good plan.
because seriously in the future. you wouldn't know what to do when u do get confused. face it now and later on in the future you will know how to handle things better.
be strong. right now honestly your being weak.
everyone is scaried of heartbreaks but people are still out there finding that person.
U can't help when or who we will fall in love with....just cuz u been in bad relationships before doesn't mean that u r doomed... Relax that's part of life... Eventually u will find the man of ur dreams.... Remember u have to go through alot of frogs to find ur prince
Well you answered your own question. Stop wasting your time on people and enjoy your life. Relationships will always be there.
If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships?
If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships? Give two examples.If embryonic development is compared in different organisms, does it reflect evolutionary relationships?
Absolutely. For example, one characters of chordates (NOT vertebrates) is that we all have pharyngeal gill slits at some point in our development. Humans do have gills, but only in our embryonic stage, and then they dissapear.
At some point in their development all chordates have a notochord, a hollow dorsal nerve cord, pharyngeal slits, an endostyle, and a post-anal.
Depending on the organism some of these dissapear during the embryonic stage or at some point in life.
Most humans are born without a tail because it usually dissapears sometime during embryonic development.
Absolutely. For example, one characters of chordates (NOT vertebrates) is that we all have pharyngeal gill slits at some point in our development. Humans do have gills, but only in our embryonic stage, and then they dissapear.
At some point in their development all chordates have a notochord, a hollow dorsal nerve cord, pharyngeal slits, an endostyle, and a post-anal.
Depending on the organism some of these dissapear during the embryonic stage or at some point in life.
Most humans are born without a tail because it usually dissapears sometime during embryonic development.
What is a marketing tool that attempts to uncover hidden patterns and relationships?
between data about a company and a consumer?What is a marketing tool that attempts to uncover hidden patterns and relationships?
Consumer Reports
Consumer Reports
Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
I have to do a page report on the civil war (U.S). The twist is that I can write it on any topic that relates to the civil war (before, during, after). So I was wondering if there was any case of a black and white relationship during this time. I'm not pinning my report on this, but it'd be nice.Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
Yes quite a few.. not only the cases with white men and slave women that everyone keeps referring to, but also with black free men/women and others. Note it was dangerous though as it could be used against you and in many areas was illegal.
An example would be Sally Hemming. Not only is there the strong possibility of her relationship with Thomas Jefferson (including him possibly being the father of her children, and at least one of her children has been shown of the Jefferson bloodline) but also the fact that she was the half sister of Jefferson's late wife. (Hemming was 3/4's white.)Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
According to history, yes...there were relationships between black and white, but mostly, it was white male slave owners who had relations with their black slave women. I'm sure there were other relationships, but were not talked about and were hidden because of being disowned and ridiculed by family and others. I know it was just a movie, but the mini series, ';North and South'; featuring Patrick Swayze had his friend's sister (a northern white lady), marrying a black ex-slave.
Slave women were routinely raped by their ';owners';.
Any other ';relationship'; between people of different races was illegal.
And it remained so until 1967
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._V鈥?/a>
Look up miscegenation
I lot of female slaves were raped by white men, and also their masters would offer them preferential treatment for sexual favors. I'm sure there were some uplifting stories of true love but I can't think of any right now.
A lot of high yellows came from white men with female slaves.
If you've ever seen roots the answer would be yes.
Yes quite a few.. not only the cases with white men and slave women that everyone keeps referring to, but also with black free men/women and others. Note it was dangerous though as it could be used against you and in many areas was illegal.
An example would be Sally Hemming. Not only is there the strong possibility of her relationship with Thomas Jefferson (including him possibly being the father of her children, and at least one of her children has been shown of the Jefferson bloodline) but also the fact that she was the half sister of Jefferson's late wife. (Hemming was 3/4's white.)Where there any interracial relationships during the time of slavery?
According to history, yes...there were relationships between black and white, but mostly, it was white male slave owners who had relations with their black slave women. I'm sure there were other relationships, but were not talked about and were hidden because of being disowned and ridiculed by family and others. I know it was just a movie, but the mini series, ';North and South'; featuring Patrick Swayze had his friend's sister (a northern white lady), marrying a black ex-slave.
Slave women were routinely raped by their ';owners';.
Any other ';relationship'; between people of different races was illegal.
And it remained so until 1967
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loving_v._V鈥?/a>
Look up miscegenation
I lot of female slaves were raped by white men, and also their masters would offer them preferential treatment for sexual favors. I'm sure there were some uplifting stories of true love but I can't think of any right now.
A lot of high yellows came from white men with female slaves.
If you've ever seen roots the answer would be yes.
What does it mean when someone says your emotionally immature in relationships?
Everyone i've ever dated has always said i was immature when it comes to relationships...what does that ever really mean?What does it mean when someone says your emotionally immature in relationships?
basically ur not ready to be in relationshio until u mature a bit..
basically ur not ready to be in relationshio until u mature a bit..
How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
It's soooo frustrating how you meet someone you want as a spouse/friend but you have to sit there for ages doing stupid socializing and stuff until it's high enough for you to make your move. Does anyone know any way that you can make them have FAST relationships? Like, a cheat or something, like in Sims 2.How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
use the lifetime rewards to make your sims charmers and it'll go faster. They can still live together and sleep together without being married though. I had one that had 5 kids and never married until he died and I brought him back to life and then got them married.How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
just keep on talking with the sims untill their relation meter is full.
i got a nice cheat for the game to have unlimited money,just press ctrl+alt+c together and a console will open up.type there ';Motherlode'; without quotes and press enter for 50,000 more Simoleons and if u require more money then keep on doing it.
there are more cheats,after the console opens type:
';shazaam'; -to add +2,500 lifetime happiness points to active Sim
';force opportunity'; - Click career building you work at to force an opportunity
';force event'; - Click career building you work at to force an event
';force all events'; - Click career building to display all events for the career consecutively
';force visitor'; - Forces a neighbor to show up
';make me know everyone'; - Selected Sim knows every other Sim
';make friends for me'; - Make several random friends for selected Sim
';make happy'; - Sets all mood/moodlets for everyone in the house to perfect; removes negative moodletszits
use the lifetime rewards to make your sims charmers and it'll go faster. They can still live together and sleep together without being married though. I had one that had 5 kids and never married until he died and I brought him back to life and then got them married.How to get high relationships FAST in Sims 3?
just keep on talking with the sims untill their relation meter is full.
i got a nice cheat for the game to have unlimited money,just press ctrl+alt+c together and a console will open up.type there ';Motherlode'; without quotes and press enter for 50,000 more Simoleons and if u require more money then keep on doing it.
there are more cheats,after the console opens type:
';shazaam'; -to add +2,500 lifetime happiness points to active Sim
';force opportunity'; - Click career building you work at to force an opportunity
';force event'; - Click career building you work at to force an event
';force all events'; - Click career building to display all events for the career consecutively
';force visitor'; - Forces a neighbor to show up
';make me know everyone'; - Selected Sim knows every other Sim
';make friends for me'; - Make several random friends for selected Sim
';make happy'; - Sets all mood/moodlets for everyone in the house to perfect; removes negative moodlets
Is it sinful to practice sex before marriage even in a long relationships?
i`ve been in a relationship for 6 years, and God knows it`s impossible not to be intimate with your partner for so long, and it`s with love. so, despite all my efforts to live according the bible, i`ll go to hell because of having sex before marriage?by the way, we are 26 both, and we have serious plans for us.Is it sinful to practice sex before marriage even in a long relationships?
SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT A SIN!
I learned about this in confirmation class...
Anyways, I think people tend to choose certain things out of the bible to follow, such as ';don't have sex.... no gay marriage...'; etc..
But, honestly, if everyone followed EVERYTHING in the Bible, then tons of things we do are considered ';sins'; and other things that are frowned upon today would be allowed!
Like, we no eating pork ever, and men would be allowed to stone their wives to death..
Sex before marriage is NOT a sin sweetie, Sex is something GOOD, filled with love!!
As long as you're not harming someone else, do what makes you happy.
And if you THINK it's a sin, just go to confession!
You are always forgiven by God and still have a chance of going to heaven :)
Good luck. be happy!
Congrats on the 6 year relationship- and staying committed!!Is it sinful to practice sex before marriage even in a long relationships?
You don't earn the right to go to heaven. Accept that you are a sinner, that Christ died for you, and accept Him into your heart, and you will go to heaven.
But you still shouldn't have sex before marriage. My advice: marry him. (if you love him and he is also a Christian)
You should read 1 corintheans 6:15-20
also 1 Corinthians 7:9:
The best place to get your view of right and wrong is from the Lord - biblically pre-merital sex is very wrong. Against yourself, which is God's new temple. Heck, if you want to marry...do it! :D
You have to go with your heart and how you feel . I know people look down on that and say that you could never have a successful marriage b-c you are ';pure'; but im here to tell you my husband and i have been married for 3 years and have been together a total of 7 years and we did not wait ! And we are very happy and content with each other and we feel no shame in our game ! ! .... I really think it would be hard to marry someone you have never been intimate with ? How awkward ! lol ... You know if your happy (and sounds like you are) so just dont worry about trying to be perfect ! NO ONE IS ! Live you life !
God designed sex to be shared within the institution of marriage between a man and his wife. It is a beautiful thing when shared in marriage. God does view premarital sex as sin-- it was not His intention for sex to be outside of marriage. However, having premarital sex will not keep you from going to heaven. The only thing keeping someone out of heaven is not having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and accepting Him into your life as your Savior and Lord. If a born again Christian participates in premarital sex, he/she will not be kept out of heaven because according to God's Word, nothing can separate you from the Love of God. One can never lose their salvation after they have accepted Christ as their Savior. However, the person should repent of their sin and try to abstain. Abstaining is possible with God's help. Remember, the only way to go to heaven is through Jesus Christ, not through ';good works'; alone. I wish you all the joy possible through our Lord and Savior.
Look I don't wont to sit here and twist God words, The Lord Most High does say get married, he that finds a wife shall find a good thing. Marriage should be easy for you since you been with her for 6 years, if you truly love someone with all your heart you would want to get closer and be with them for eternity, This is the Word of God Most High because it is a perfect form of a relationship between man and women. He wants close Love, not distant Love, He wants full trust not '; Well I don't know if im going to be with you forever'; kinda love. Marriage is Love to the fullest, to perfection.
Lord Jesus says it is a sin( to miss the mark), why? Because it is not perfect, its is distorted and fataly flawed. It is better for sex to be in marriage rather than out, God will easily forgive you even if you destroyed the entire universe. But if you Truly Love God and your woman you would please both of them, because in reality the man is the one responsible for marriage.
Obviously it is a sin. You don't need anyone here to tell you that.
I don't know your circumstances so I just say this generally....26 is too long to wait to get married. It is not healthy. Nor should people be in relationships for 6 years without getting married....that is not healthy either. Our society has shifted away from any attempt to follow the commands of God, and we rationalize away our sin....but it is still sin....and nothing has changed. It is not I that say so....but the Lord God.
This is a great question. I am glad that you addressed this because I am a christian and many of my friends are as well but we all struggle with this one. I'm not saying that I have the right answer but we came to an understanding and got more in depth with this subject.
To answer right off the back yes it is a sin to have sex before marriage. Now one of the ten commandments state that You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.
With that being said biblical it is a sin because if you don't marry that person and someone else does then you sleep with someones wife or husband. Even if their not married at the time.
God created male and female to mix and mate. The bible even says that God love it when people mating because the purpose is to bring and create life. So yes it is a sin but I wouldn't just to say that you could go to hell for it. The bible says that as long as you believe that Jesus Christ is your lord and savior that your name is written in the book of heaven. But its the things that you do/ the lifestyle you live that makes the decision on how your life will be once you get to heaven.
I am a realist as well and know that it could be extremely hard to stay to yourself when you fully love someone and what to give them your all. In your situation, you claim that you guys have future plans. I am not sure of what that means but if its referring to marriage than that's great. And based on the commandment you are sleeping with your husband. But the decision is ultimately up to you.
Hope I answered your question or gave you some things to think about.
Stop letting other people rule your life. Throw out the bible %26amp; let your intuition guide you. If you understood the bible you could see anything in it tells you wantever you want to get from it. Adam listened to some slimy thing %26amp; his wife when he should have only listened to his gut, so he lost his heaven on earth his garden of eden. Wake up! Have sex. Sin is an old archery term that means to miss the mark...you are missing the mark by not having sex...find the mark %26amp; shoot! Practice safe sex though if you are not ready for children.
Was in 5 year relationship with old girlfriend. It didn't work out and we had sex. My wife has similar story. Now we are married but are
not the first for each other. I can't change that though I wish I could.
If my other girlfriend had gotten pregnant, a child would be in the
equation which complicates life. I think God's plan for sex in marriage is to protect us from the heartache it can produce. I do believe Paul
stated ';it is better to marry than to burn';.
Dude... this is 2009. Everybody has sex before marriage.
I'm prejudiced because I don't believe in god, so this whole thing about suspending natural pleasures for the sake of some talking head in the clouds who may or may not be real is beyond absurd to me... but seriously. If you've been dating for 6 years and you HAVEN'T had sex yet... then something's wrong.
If you have been together for that long then god knows your plans to be together forever just as well as you do. I don't think it is a sin to be intimate with the person you love and plan to spend forever with.
well it its a sin your not to supposed to have sex before marriage the bible says to stay away fro many sexual sin you need to repent and not do it again sex is for marriage ask god to forgive you and don't do it again
If you're in it for the long haul and you're that religious that you feel your soul is in jeopardy, why not get married?
I'm not religious but it seems a logical next step for you two. What are you waiting for?
No it isn't. If I were you, I wouldn't live off the Bible. It seems like people who live off of it seem to feel guilty or ashamed of things they really don't need to be ashamed of.
Of course it isn't! And by the way, according to the Ten Commandments of God, you just have to be faithful. Besides, lots of people refuse to get married at all, and yet they have children and are a family.
yes, according to the bible it is a sin to have sex before marriage, however hellfire is not biblical.
It really depends on your own beliefs and your own relationship with God.
Not on this day and age, I think God understands that times have changed. No sex outside marriage was meant for when there were no long term relationships, people just got married! Don't worry!
Repent and wait, you won't go to hell. Sex isn't neccescary to have a relationship. Get married already
The bible does not forbid sex before marriage
No, of course not. The concept of ';sin'; was invented to make people feel guilty so they would be easier to control.
So stop living in sin and get married already.
Yes, it is sinful. You should repent for that.
Um....no. I do it all the time.
U got ur needs, god understands. He made u, but didn't invent marriage or the rules to it. Go have ur fun.
Its only a sin if you believe it is, and I don't so its not a problem. Root root fill your boot
hell no. Your twenty six, just live your life :)
no it is not
Yes it's sinful as stated in the Bible. You can try to reason your way out of that fact, but you are just lying to yourself. It is not impossible to abstain until marriage, just difficult.
Marriage is a holy union that God set aside for the male and female. It is a symbol of Christ and the church. The male represents Christ and the female is the church, his pure and holy bride.
Sex is the ultimate fulfilment of this union. When you have sex outside of marriage you are cheating on your bride. Your girfriend is also cheating on her husband - even if he turns out to be you one day. You are taking something that should be holy and precious and twisting and defacing it. You are saying marriage and your bride are not that important to you.
If you think you can just get forgiveness and move on you are wrong. Yes, God will forgive you if you sincerely confess and repent, but it will still follow you around. I had sex outside of marriage, and I can tell you with certainty that it was hurtful to the man I am about to marry in 3 weeks even though I was in high school at the time and since moved on.
Everyone makes mistakes, but please do your best to honor God in this area. Do not go through the emotional pain that will result if you are smart enough to avoid it. Sin is damaging.
You can make excuses, but you cannot change what God and the Bible clearly say. Fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. Get forgiveness now and let God make you pure again. Then stay that way. If you plan to marry this girl, then just do it. After six years, how can you still not know for sure? And I'm wondering how your girlfriend feels about all this as well?
If you have more questions about this, email me. I can provide you with some helpful scriptures to meditate on with your girlfriend.
Frankly I don't care what two people do in a bedroom as long as its consensual.
Why buy a car without taking it for a test drive?
SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT A SIN!
I learned about this in confirmation class...
Anyways, I think people tend to choose certain things out of the bible to follow, such as ';don't have sex.... no gay marriage...'; etc..
But, honestly, if everyone followed EVERYTHING in the Bible, then tons of things we do are considered ';sins'; and other things that are frowned upon today would be allowed!
Like, we no eating pork ever, and men would be allowed to stone their wives to death..
Sex before marriage is NOT a sin sweetie, Sex is something GOOD, filled with love!!
As long as you're not harming someone else, do what makes you happy.
And if you THINK it's a sin, just go to confession!
You are always forgiven by God and still have a chance of going to heaven :)
Good luck. be happy!
Congrats on the 6 year relationship- and staying committed!!Is it sinful to practice sex before marriage even in a long relationships?
You don't earn the right to go to heaven. Accept that you are a sinner, that Christ died for you, and accept Him into your heart, and you will go to heaven.
But you still shouldn't have sex before marriage. My advice: marry him. (if you love him and he is also a Christian)
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You should read 1 corintheans 6:15-20
also 1 Corinthians 7:9:
The best place to get your view of right and wrong is from the Lord - biblically pre-merital sex is very wrong. Against yourself, which is God's new temple. Heck, if you want to marry...do it! :D
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You have to go with your heart and how you feel . I know people look down on that and say that you could never have a successful marriage b-c you are ';pure'; but im here to tell you my husband and i have been married for 3 years and have been together a total of 7 years and we did not wait ! And we are very happy and content with each other and we feel no shame in our game ! ! .... I really think it would be hard to marry someone you have never been intimate with ? How awkward ! lol ... You know if your happy (and sounds like you are) so just dont worry about trying to be perfect ! NO ONE IS ! Live you life !
God designed sex to be shared within the institution of marriage between a man and his wife. It is a beautiful thing when shared in marriage. God does view premarital sex as sin-- it was not His intention for sex to be outside of marriage. However, having premarital sex will not keep you from going to heaven. The only thing keeping someone out of heaven is not having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and accepting Him into your life as your Savior and Lord. If a born again Christian participates in premarital sex, he/she will not be kept out of heaven because according to God's Word, nothing can separate you from the Love of God. One can never lose their salvation after they have accepted Christ as their Savior. However, the person should repent of their sin and try to abstain. Abstaining is possible with God's help. Remember, the only way to go to heaven is through Jesus Christ, not through ';good works'; alone. I wish you all the joy possible through our Lord and Savior.
Look I don't wont to sit here and twist God words, The Lord Most High does say get married, he that finds a wife shall find a good thing. Marriage should be easy for you since you been with her for 6 years, if you truly love someone with all your heart you would want to get closer and be with them for eternity, This is the Word of God Most High because it is a perfect form of a relationship between man and women. He wants close Love, not distant Love, He wants full trust not '; Well I don't know if im going to be with you forever'; kinda love. Marriage is Love to the fullest, to perfection.
Lord Jesus says it is a sin( to miss the mark), why? Because it is not perfect, its is distorted and fataly flawed. It is better for sex to be in marriage rather than out, God will easily forgive you even if you destroyed the entire universe. But if you Truly Love God and your woman you would please both of them, because in reality the man is the one responsible for marriage.
Obviously it is a sin. You don't need anyone here to tell you that.
I don't know your circumstances so I just say this generally....26 is too long to wait to get married. It is not healthy. Nor should people be in relationships for 6 years without getting married....that is not healthy either. Our society has shifted away from any attempt to follow the commands of God, and we rationalize away our sin....but it is still sin....and nothing has changed. It is not I that say so....but the Lord God.
This is a great question. I am glad that you addressed this because I am a christian and many of my friends are as well but we all struggle with this one. I'm not saying that I have the right answer but we came to an understanding and got more in depth with this subject.
To answer right off the back yes it is a sin to have sex before marriage. Now one of the ten commandments state that You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.
With that being said biblical it is a sin because if you don't marry that person and someone else does then you sleep with someones wife or husband. Even if their not married at the time.
God created male and female to mix and mate. The bible even says that God love it when people mating because the purpose is to bring and create life. So yes it is a sin but I wouldn't just to say that you could go to hell for it. The bible says that as long as you believe that Jesus Christ is your lord and savior that your name is written in the book of heaven. But its the things that you do/ the lifestyle you live that makes the decision on how your life will be once you get to heaven.
I am a realist as well and know that it could be extremely hard to stay to yourself when you fully love someone and what to give them your all. In your situation, you claim that you guys have future plans. I am not sure of what that means but if its referring to marriage than that's great. And based on the commandment you are sleeping with your husband. But the decision is ultimately up to you.
Hope I answered your question or gave you some things to think about.
Stop letting other people rule your life. Throw out the bible %26amp; let your intuition guide you. If you understood the bible you could see anything in it tells you wantever you want to get from it. Adam listened to some slimy thing %26amp; his wife when he should have only listened to his gut, so he lost his heaven on earth his garden of eden. Wake up! Have sex. Sin is an old archery term that means to miss the mark...you are missing the mark by not having sex...find the mark %26amp; shoot! Practice safe sex though if you are not ready for children.
Was in 5 year relationship with old girlfriend. It didn't work out and we had sex. My wife has similar story. Now we are married but are
not the first for each other. I can't change that though I wish I could.
If my other girlfriend had gotten pregnant, a child would be in the
equation which complicates life. I think God's plan for sex in marriage is to protect us from the heartache it can produce. I do believe Paul
stated ';it is better to marry than to burn';.
Dude... this is 2009. Everybody has sex before marriage.
I'm prejudiced because I don't believe in god, so this whole thing about suspending natural pleasures for the sake of some talking head in the clouds who may or may not be real is beyond absurd to me... but seriously. If you've been dating for 6 years and you HAVEN'T had sex yet... then something's wrong.
If you have been together for that long then god knows your plans to be together forever just as well as you do. I don't think it is a sin to be intimate with the person you love and plan to spend forever with.
well it its a sin your not to supposed to have sex before marriage the bible says to stay away fro many sexual sin you need to repent and not do it again sex is for marriage ask god to forgive you and don't do it again
If you're in it for the long haul and you're that religious that you feel your soul is in jeopardy, why not get married?
I'm not religious but it seems a logical next step for you two. What are you waiting for?
No it isn't. If I were you, I wouldn't live off the Bible. It seems like people who live off of it seem to feel guilty or ashamed of things they really don't need to be ashamed of.
Of course it isn't! And by the way, according to the Ten Commandments of God, you just have to be faithful. Besides, lots of people refuse to get married at all, and yet they have children and are a family.
yes, according to the bible it is a sin to have sex before marriage, however hellfire is not biblical.
It really depends on your own beliefs and your own relationship with God.
Not on this day and age, I think God understands that times have changed. No sex outside marriage was meant for when there were no long term relationships, people just got married! Don't worry!
Repent and wait, you won't go to hell. Sex isn't neccescary to have a relationship. Get married already
The bible does not forbid sex before marriage
No, of course not. The concept of ';sin'; was invented to make people feel guilty so they would be easier to control.
So stop living in sin and get married already.
Yes, it is sinful. You should repent for that.
Um....no. I do it all the time.
U got ur needs, god understands. He made u, but didn't invent marriage or the rules to it. Go have ur fun.
Its only a sin if you believe it is, and I don't so its not a problem. Root root fill your boot
hell no. Your twenty six, just live your life :)
no it is not
Yes it's sinful as stated in the Bible. You can try to reason your way out of that fact, but you are just lying to yourself. It is not impossible to abstain until marriage, just difficult.
Marriage is a holy union that God set aside for the male and female. It is a symbol of Christ and the church. The male represents Christ and the female is the church, his pure and holy bride.
Sex is the ultimate fulfilment of this union. When you have sex outside of marriage you are cheating on your bride. Your girfriend is also cheating on her husband - even if he turns out to be you one day. You are taking something that should be holy and precious and twisting and defacing it. You are saying marriage and your bride are not that important to you.
If you think you can just get forgiveness and move on you are wrong. Yes, God will forgive you if you sincerely confess and repent, but it will still follow you around. I had sex outside of marriage, and I can tell you with certainty that it was hurtful to the man I am about to marry in 3 weeks even though I was in high school at the time and since moved on.
Everyone makes mistakes, but please do your best to honor God in this area. Do not go through the emotional pain that will result if you are smart enough to avoid it. Sin is damaging.
You can make excuses, but you cannot change what God and the Bible clearly say. Fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. Get forgiveness now and let God make you pure again. Then stay that way. If you plan to marry this girl, then just do it. After six years, how can you still not know for sure? And I'm wondering how your girlfriend feels about all this as well?
If you have more questions about this, email me. I can provide you with some helpful scriptures to meditate on with your girlfriend.
Frankly I don't care what two people do in a bedroom as long as its consensual.
Why buy a car without taking it for a test drive?
What percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
It seems like the amount is growing each day. Opinions? Facts?What percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
The facts are we will never know the true #, it's far more than is reportedWhat percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
All of them if you ask them.I wonder how many of the guys in those relationships are just as abused.
The facts are we will never know the true #, it's far more than is reportedWhat percentage of women in the US are currently in abusive relationships?
All of them if you ask them.I wonder how many of the guys in those relationships are just as abused.
Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
I notice that some people I know seem to think they're as necessary to life as eating and breathing, and yet I see other people go through life without any relationships and do just fine. It's a remarkable phenomenon.Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
Opinions vary, and so do positions in life. Some feel that relationships are crucial in their happiness, while others are in no position to entertain a relationship. I am a full time college student, as well as involved in a serious relationship. At times, the schedules of each conflict, but in order to maintain both, I make it work. Both have an impact on my future, so both deserve equal attention. Some may not be able to ';juggle'; a relationship during periods of personal growth, but may use a relationship as a goal when the growth is finished. To each his own.Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
It depends. The thing about romantic relationships is that it hits you out of no where, but once you have it, you have trouble being with out it. Before it hits you though, you are fine with out it.
Also remember that once you do experience it, it can alter and change your life and make you a much more happy person with meaning and purpose in your life. With out it, you are usually just another brick in the wall...
I feel you have to be able to be happy alone without the ';need'; for a relationship. If you can not be happy by yourself then you will drain the relationship quickly. They are important to being well rounded. Ability to receive and give love, but not the most important thing in the world. I love my husband but can be happy doing our own things as well.
its not a necessity, i think you have to be able to make yourself happy and you can;t rely on anyone else for that, i've been single by choice for about 2 years now, I just don't want a romantic relationship right now, I'm focusing on my career and my home, and I'm perfectly happy!
well a good healthy relationship can enhance your well-being but the bad relationships make you decide they are totally not worth the trouble
Opinions vary, and so do positions in life. Some feel that relationships are crucial in their happiness, while others are in no position to entertain a relationship. I am a full time college student, as well as involved in a serious relationship. At times, the schedules of each conflict, but in order to maintain both, I make it work. Both have an impact on my future, so both deserve equal attention. Some may not be able to ';juggle'; a relationship during periods of personal growth, but may use a relationship as a goal when the growth is finished. To each his own.Do you perceive romantic relationships as a luxury , or as being necessary for overall well-being?
It depends. The thing about romantic relationships is that it hits you out of no where, but once you have it, you have trouble being with out it. Before it hits you though, you are fine with out it.
Also remember that once you do experience it, it can alter and change your life and make you a much more happy person with meaning and purpose in your life. With out it, you are usually just another brick in the wall...
I feel you have to be able to be happy alone without the ';need'; for a relationship. If you can not be happy by yourself then you will drain the relationship quickly. They are important to being well rounded. Ability to receive and give love, but not the most important thing in the world. I love my husband but can be happy doing our own things as well.
its not a necessity, i think you have to be able to make yourself happy and you can;t rely on anyone else for that, i've been single by choice for about 2 years now, I just don't want a romantic relationship right now, I'm focusing on my career and my home, and I'm perfectly happy!
well a good healthy relationship can enhance your well-being but the bad relationships make you decide they are totally not worth the trouble
How did actions taken by both Native Americans and European colonists shape relationships in these areas?
- Chesapeake
- Spanish Southwest
Try to give a couple of reasons for each. I need about five, but you can give less if you want to.How did actions taken by both Native Americans and European colonists shape relationships in these areas?
Spanish Southwest:
Hundreds of thousands of Native Americans had inhabited regions like the Great Plains, the Southwest, and the Pacific Coast for centuries, but their nomadic lifestyle enabled settlers to continue the ongoing process of encroachment. In the eyes of the whites, the Indians' migratory social structure also made them unfit to ';properly'; settle the land according to the Western model of agricultural production.
Georgia:
When Native Americans turned to the federal government to support their territorial claims, even winning a Supreme Court ruling that affirmed those claims, President Jackson turned a deaf ear. He ignored three decades of government precedent, and a clear Court ruling, while implementing a removal policy that displaced over 90,000 people.
From Shmoop History
- Spanish Southwest
Try to give a couple of reasons for each. I need about five, but you can give less if you want to.How did actions taken by both Native Americans and European colonists shape relationships in these areas?
Spanish Southwest:
Hundreds of thousands of Native Americans had inhabited regions like the Great Plains, the Southwest, and the Pacific Coast for centuries, but their nomadic lifestyle enabled settlers to continue the ongoing process of encroachment. In the eyes of the whites, the Indians' migratory social structure also made them unfit to ';properly'; settle the land according to the Western model of agricultural production.
Georgia:
When Native Americans turned to the federal government to support their territorial claims, even winning a Supreme Court ruling that affirmed those claims, President Jackson turned a deaf ear. He ignored three decades of government precedent, and a clear Court ruling, while implementing a removal policy that displaced over 90,000 people.
From Shmoop History
What are the evolutionary relationships between prokaryotes and eukaryotes?
What are the differences and please include structural adaptations and their functional significance.
Instead of prokaryotes or eukaryotes you can use:
green algae and vascular plants
or
amphibians and reptilesWhat are the evolutionary relationships between prokaryotes and eukaryotes?
Prokaryotes developed first and Eukaryotes evolved from Prokaryotes.
Instead of prokaryotes or eukaryotes you can use:
green algae and vascular plants
or
amphibians and reptilesWhat are the evolutionary relationships between prokaryotes and eukaryotes?
Prokaryotes developed first and Eukaryotes evolved from Prokaryotes.
Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
It can be any type of book (short story, non fiction, fictione ect) as long as it focusses on family or mentor relationships. THANKYOU!Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
Try Revolutionary Road...this book is one of Kate Winslet's (Academy Award winning actress) favorite book:
http://famouspick.blogspot.com/2009/02/k鈥?/a>
Kate Winslet comment:
';Frank and April Wheeler meet in New York. He has bohemian ideas; she is a woman who believed that she was going to be something special among a group of special people. After they move to the suburbs, you see quite clearly the isolation they feel once severed from the city. In the moments when the two are happy, you see how happiness can be reignited in a relationship that鈥檚 starting to go sour, but they insist on seeing themselves as a kind of golden couple, destined for a more glamorous life. It鈥檚 really a story about disappointment鈥攁nd how that can destroy one鈥檚 soul.';Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
You might try that with ';Uncertain'; by Melissa K. Andres. It's a murder mystery and it's really good! It's available on barnesandnoble.com and amazon.com. I think you'd really like it! It's about a family who falls into some bad things but some of them are turned around after meeting another character.
Try to read this book: Call Me Hope.
It's about this girl who has a bad relationship with her verbal-abusing mom.
In the end, her mom changes.
the book made me cry.
Try it.
Or you could try the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer.
lol twilight.
or pretty much any fiction that is based in ww2.
also if a film is ok you could try the karate kid.
also you may be able to use robin hoodzits
Try Revolutionary Road...this book is one of Kate Winslet's (Academy Award winning actress) favorite book:
http://famouspick.blogspot.com/2009/02/k鈥?/a>
Kate Winslet comment:
';Frank and April Wheeler meet in New York. He has bohemian ideas; she is a woman who believed that she was going to be something special among a group of special people. After they move to the suburbs, you see quite clearly the isolation they feel once severed from the city. In the moments when the two are happy, you see how happiness can be reignited in a relationship that鈥檚 starting to go sour, but they insist on seeing themselves as a kind of golden couple, destined for a more glamorous life. It鈥檚 really a story about disappointment鈥攁nd how that can destroy one鈥檚 soul.';Whats a good book that i can analyse about the concept of relationships?
You might try that with ';Uncertain'; by Melissa K. Andres. It's a murder mystery and it's really good! It's available on barnesandnoble.com and amazon.com. I think you'd really like it! It's about a family who falls into some bad things but some of them are turned around after meeting another character.
Try to read this book: Call Me Hope.
It's about this girl who has a bad relationship with her verbal-abusing mom.
In the end, her mom changes.
the book made me cry.
Try it.
Or you could try the Twilight series by Stephenie Meyer.
lol twilight.
or pretty much any fiction that is based in ww2.
also if a film is ok you could try the karate kid.
also you may be able to use robin hood
Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
it's up to you.
some guys might like a girl that bites, while you might think it's a phase that 3 year olds go through. also, depends on whether or not you're okay with someone who smokes pot. i wouldn't be, but that's me.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
well that is interesting.
you sound like you arent really okay with it.
you shouldnt put up with it if you arent.
and pot is bad for everybody and itys stupid that she is doing it.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
you dont know her enough to b her gf i guess
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NO
ALL RELATIONSHIPS MUST BE EQUAL....KICK HER TO THE KERB!
hey sounds like me except not just occassionally
If you're okay with it, then yes.
HELL YEAH!
well yea.But she shouldnt smoke pot its stupid
If you like it, sure.
If you dont like it alot, change her by talking/doing stuff.
if you hate it, BEAT HER THE HELL UP.
some guys might like a girl that bites, while you might think it's a phase that 3 year olds go through. also, depends on whether or not you're okay with someone who smokes pot. i wouldn't be, but that's me.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
well that is interesting.
you sound like you arent really okay with it.
you shouldnt put up with it if you arent.
and pot is bad for everybody and itys stupid that she is doing it.Is it okay to have a GF who is more dominating in relationships?
you dont know her enough to b her gf i guess
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NO
ALL RELATIONSHIPS MUST BE EQUAL....KICK HER TO THE KERB!
hey sounds like me except not just occassionally
If you're okay with it, then yes.
HELL YEAH!
well yea.But she shouldnt smoke pot its stupid
If you like it, sure.
If you dont like it alot, change her by talking/doing stuff.
if you hate it, BEAT HER THE HELL UP.
Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
Is there a database or xml tree somewhere that I can access that will show me all or most of the known animal species and where they are on the evolutionary tree?Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
Not exactly what you're looking for, but you might want to check out the Tree of Life Project (see links in my sources). It's not a workable database or XML tree, but it does aim to catalogue all species and their evolutionary relationships.Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
';We do not know, to within 10% or so, how many distinct eukaryotic species have been named and recorded (the species concept arguably needs to be interpreted differently for prokaryotes). This derives partly from the lack of synoptic and coordinated catalogs for many invertebrate taxa and partly from resulting unresolved synonymies: the same species separately identified and named on two or more occasions. The total number of known eukaryotic species is currently estimated as ~1.8 to 1.9 million, but with all the synonymies removed it may be 1.6 million or fewer. Bird and mammal species are known very well and most other vertebrates reasonably well. Somewhere around 90% of plant species are probably known. But our knowledge of invertebrate species (insects, helminths, and others) is woefully inadequate. So credible estimates of the true eukaryotic species total run around 5 to 10 million, but suggestions as low as 3 million or as high as 100 million can
be defended.';
Species Uncertainties by Robert M. May and Paul H. Harvey
Science 6 February 2009:Vol. 323. no. 5915, p. 687
There have been several attempts and start-ups (see the above answer) but there is no easily accessible record - there's not enough people working in this field and there's not enough money or interest to do more. Above the species level, there are more complete phylogenies but the taxonomic resolution is very broad:
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Not exactly what you're looking for, but you might want to check out the Tree of Life Project (see links in my sources). It's not a workable database or XML tree, but it does aim to catalogue all species and their evolutionary relationships.Is there a public database of all known species and their evolutionary relationships?
';We do not know, to within 10% or so, how many distinct eukaryotic species have been named and recorded (the species concept arguably needs to be interpreted differently for prokaryotes). This derives partly from the lack of synoptic and coordinated catalogs for many invertebrate taxa and partly from resulting unresolved synonymies: the same species separately identified and named on two or more occasions. The total number of known eukaryotic species is currently estimated as ~1.8 to 1.9 million, but with all the synonymies removed it may be 1.6 million or fewer. Bird and mammal species are known very well and most other vertebrates reasonably well. Somewhere around 90% of plant species are probably known. But our knowledge of invertebrate species (insects, helminths, and others) is woefully inadequate. So credible estimates of the true eukaryotic species total run around 5 to 10 million, but suggestions as low as 3 million or as high as 100 million can
be defended.';
Species Uncertainties by Robert M. May and Paul H. Harvey
Science 6 February 2009:Vol. 323. no. 5915, p. 687
There have been several attempts and start-ups (see the above answer) but there is no easily accessible record - there's not enough people working in this field and there's not enough money or interest to do more. Above the species level, there are more complete phylogenies but the taxonomic resolution is very broad:
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What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?
This is a GCSE question and I haven't got a clue. Please help.What does romeo and paris' arranged marriage suggest about male and female relationships in Verona?
The idea of marrying for love was a fairly new concept in Shakespeare's time. Before that, marriage (especially in wealthy or noble families) was a way to strengthen alliances and continue dynasties. Even poorer families looked for matches that would increase their wealth and status.
Women in particular were regarded as chattels (possessions). They were basically traded to another family in return for something else.
Civis Romanus
The idea of marrying for love was a fairly new concept in Shakespeare's time. Before that, marriage (especially in wealthy or noble families) was a way to strengthen alliances and continue dynasties. Even poorer families looked for matches that would increase their wealth and status.
Women in particular were regarded as chattels (possessions). They were basically traded to another family in return for something else.
Civis Romanus
Would you consider online relationships cheating if one person is already married?
My parents have been married for 30 years But yesterday I caught my dad talking to other women online in a sexual way. Basically they were having cyber sex. I haven't told him I know about it yet or not. Do you think that is a form of cheating? And do you think I should talk to my mom about this?Would you consider online relationships cheating if one person is already married?
its definitely cheating, or planning to. first speak to your dad about it, and just hope he makes the decision to stop it.Would you consider online relationships cheating if one person is already married?
I think that this is a form of cheating. Just because they aren't having sex, doesn't mean that he's not cheating. Relationships aren't just about the sexual aspect. It's also about the connection between two people. Now I don't know if I would tell my mom about it if I were you. They've been together for 30 years. If I were in your mom's situation then I would want to be told, but if I were in your situation I don't think I could tell my mom. This is a really hard question. I think your mom deserves to know. So I say that you should tell her
Yes it's cheating but he and your mom could have an understanding that you don't know about. Forget what you saw/heard and mind your own business. It would be really akward having to discuss something like that with your dad and he's an adult, he can do what he likes.
Yes, it's cheating. No, you shouldn't talk to your mom about it. Are you a teen?
I think you should tell your dad that it's really not appropriate because he's lusting after someone other than his wife.
Yes this is a form of cheating and no, you shouldn't tell your mom. I think you should talk to your dad and let him know that it's not okay to do what he's doing while married
if he is doing things he can not tell your mother about it is a betrayal and considered cheating. He needs to quit and be aware that this is inappropriate behavior.
the dude has been married for 30 years.
give him a god-dammned medal and let him have his fun.
yes
its definitely cheating, or planning to. first speak to your dad about it, and just hope he makes the decision to stop it.Would you consider online relationships cheating if one person is already married?
I think that this is a form of cheating. Just because they aren't having sex, doesn't mean that he's not cheating. Relationships aren't just about the sexual aspect. It's also about the connection between two people. Now I don't know if I would tell my mom about it if I were you. They've been together for 30 years. If I were in your mom's situation then I would want to be told, but if I were in your situation I don't think I could tell my mom. This is a really hard question. I think your mom deserves to know. So I say that you should tell her
Yes it's cheating but he and your mom could have an understanding that you don't know about. Forget what you saw/heard and mind your own business. It would be really akward having to discuss something like that with your dad and he's an adult, he can do what he likes.
Yes, it's cheating. No, you shouldn't talk to your mom about it. Are you a teen?
I think you should tell your dad that it's really not appropriate because he's lusting after someone other than his wife.
Yes this is a form of cheating and no, you shouldn't tell your mom. I think you should talk to your dad and let him know that it's not okay to do what he's doing while married
if he is doing things he can not tell your mother about it is a betrayal and considered cheating. He needs to quit and be aware that this is inappropriate behavior.
the dude has been married for 30 years.
give him a god-dammned medal and let him have his fun.
yes
How does marriage and relationships work in the CIA or SIS?
It sounds like an interesting career (particularly the Clandestine branch as I like travel and excitement) Obviously I understand it's a lot more simple desk type work and stuff then shown in movies and such. But my real concern is marriage and dating and such. I want to get married one day but I want to know how a career in the CIA or SIS would interfere. The nature of the work is very secretive so would you have to lie to your spouse about what you do? Are you even allowed to get married or date while in the service? Things like that. ThanksHow does marriage and relationships work in the CIA or SIS?
you can marry
you can marry
Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
I mean, it's your right to be happy. And you only have one life to live, so take risks. This is for interracial and rich/poor people relationships.Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
It's true for the most part. You need to go with who makes you happy.
But at the same time, sometimes it's not safe.
For instance, being a white guy who dates a black girl in the deep south, in a little podunk town. Being gay in the same sort of place. Living in the ghetto with your significant other when people know that you are from a successful family and have nice things - thus, you become a target for attack.
I was in a relationship with a black girl that caved because nearly no one supported us - even our friends. Couldn't walk anywhere without getting nasty stares, comments, etc. Maybe now as an adult it wouldn't be so bad but as a teenager, it was tough.Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
I dont care who thinks what of my relationships
Hey tristan I thought you dated only Asian girls?
well i dont !!
*based on they way they use to live back then people still go by the old rules about being richer or different race and all that B.S %26lt;3zits
It's true for the most part. You need to go with who makes you happy.
But at the same time, sometimes it's not safe.
For instance, being a white guy who dates a black girl in the deep south, in a little podunk town. Being gay in the same sort of place. Living in the ghetto with your significant other when people know that you are from a successful family and have nice things - thus, you become a target for attack.
I was in a relationship with a black girl that caved because nearly no one supported us - even our friends. Couldn't walk anywhere without getting nasty stares, comments, etc. Maybe now as an adult it wouldn't be so bad but as a teenager, it was tough.Why do people care what others think of them and their relationships?
I dont care who thinks what of my relationships
Hey tristan I thought you dated only Asian girls?
well i dont !!
*based on they way they use to live back then people still go by the old rules about being richer or different race and all that B.S %26lt;3
What has made your relationships everlasting?
What aspects of your relationship do you attribute to your lasting relationship with your spouse. What is it about them that you couldn't live without?What has made your relationships everlasting?
Patience. lol.
We also joke around a lot and try to make each other laugh. We have set traditions to look forward to (like each year for his birthday I order cookies from his favorite childhood bakery... in Connecticut... we live in TX)
When he is here we try new things together and hang out with eachothers friends... we have a lot of the same interests (bands, sports, movies, etc)
Right now he is on his 3rd deployment (Iraq) and it is hard... but I write him a lot and we talk whenever we can. Any time I am out running errands I try to find something to send him...whether its his favorite candy or just a funny card.
What couldnt I live without? His hugs, kisses, laugh, smile, the way he touches my face. I have found myself even missing his snoring and the way he picks at his thumb. I miss him dancing in the car and singing at the top of his lungs. lol
I couldnt live without his understanding and support... hes a wonderful man and I feel very lucky to have him in my life.What has made your relationships everlasting?
Well, we are only at 13 years. I do think I have some ideas as to what really works for us in our particular situation and with our individual personalities.
#1 Commitment, loyalty, and friendship (combined). Both my husband and I are very connected via our friendship and neither one of us has yet to desire a change.
#2 Passion, we both have it for one another. When we argue, the way we love each other, and when we make love. It works for us. He's never been boring to me. He's fiery and I am feisty.
#3, each of us is frequently attentive towards the other.
#4 I stay home. My husband needs someone to take care of, as do I. Staying home is a great way to ensure that we are each playing an active role in caring for the other.
#5 Both of us are honest %26amp; talk to each other, often. I share my needs and am open to his. We talk about anything and everything we need to.
What I can't live without? Him. Everything else I am fine with!
We can all improve but he's as close as any man is ever going to get to perfect for this girl, as is.
BTW his top 2 qualities, loyalty and attentiveness.
1. let go of your own ego
2. trust
3. communication
if you can master those three, your relationship will stay pretty solid.
Honest love and trust without nagging, quarreling and fighting and giving space to each other.
Our devotion to eachother. Our trust and honesty.He loves me unconditonally; and I can be a moody wife. He has sooo much patience; and he is great with our boys.We are totally one.
my husband and i have been married for eight years. The thing that keeps me with him is that i know ive found someone who has my back no matter what happens.
re: What has made your relationships everlasting?
%26gt;%26gt; Simply KNOWLEDGE!
We both learned how to make a good relationship.........
LOL......... try it!
My asian husband is obsess with me because I'm a white woman. He showers me with attention. I'm very flattered.
Having his hand to hold and his arms to be in.
Patience. lol.
We also joke around a lot and try to make each other laugh. We have set traditions to look forward to (like each year for his birthday I order cookies from his favorite childhood bakery... in Connecticut... we live in TX)
When he is here we try new things together and hang out with eachothers friends... we have a lot of the same interests (bands, sports, movies, etc)
Right now he is on his 3rd deployment (Iraq) and it is hard... but I write him a lot and we talk whenever we can. Any time I am out running errands I try to find something to send him...whether its his favorite candy or just a funny card.
What couldnt I live without? His hugs, kisses, laugh, smile, the way he touches my face. I have found myself even missing his snoring and the way he picks at his thumb. I miss him dancing in the car and singing at the top of his lungs. lol
I couldnt live without his understanding and support... hes a wonderful man and I feel very lucky to have him in my life.What has made your relationships everlasting?
Well, we are only at 13 years. I do think I have some ideas as to what really works for us in our particular situation and with our individual personalities.
#1 Commitment, loyalty, and friendship (combined). Both my husband and I are very connected via our friendship and neither one of us has yet to desire a change.
#2 Passion, we both have it for one another. When we argue, the way we love each other, and when we make love. It works for us. He's never been boring to me. He's fiery and I am feisty.
#3, each of us is frequently attentive towards the other.
#4 I stay home. My husband needs someone to take care of, as do I. Staying home is a great way to ensure that we are each playing an active role in caring for the other.
#5 Both of us are honest %26amp; talk to each other, often. I share my needs and am open to his. We talk about anything and everything we need to.
What I can't live without? Him. Everything else I am fine with!
We can all improve but he's as close as any man is ever going to get to perfect for this girl, as is.
BTW his top 2 qualities, loyalty and attentiveness.
1. let go of your own ego
2. trust
3. communication
if you can master those three, your relationship will stay pretty solid.
Honest love and trust without nagging, quarreling and fighting and giving space to each other.
Our devotion to eachother. Our trust and honesty.He loves me unconditonally; and I can be a moody wife. He has sooo much patience; and he is great with our boys.We are totally one.
my husband and i have been married for eight years. The thing that keeps me with him is that i know ive found someone who has my back no matter what happens.
re: What has made your relationships everlasting?
%26gt;%26gt; Simply KNOWLEDGE!
We both learned how to make a good relationship.........
LOL......... try it!
My asian husband is obsess with me because I'm a white woman. He showers me with attention. I'm very flattered.
Having his hand to hold and his arms to be in.
How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
My mother was a huge feminist during the 50s and 60s and owns a medium sized company and rules it with an iron fist. She does not understand my need to be submissive in my sexual relationships. Is there some way to show her or some book I can buy her to make her understand me?How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
I think your best bet is to tell her that being submissive is how you express yourself sexually.
I know, you already have. I'm not saying you need to explain topping from the bottom or anything - not that I'm saying you ever do that! (Bad sub! Bad!)
But she should be able to understand that you have chosen this sexual lifestyle, that you are empowered by it, that it has nothing to do with how assertive or confident you are outside the bedroom (which I bet you are), and that it has nothing to do with societal female subjugation but with personal expression and liberation.
And no, tell her you are not just internalizing the predominant male-centered cultural bias! You are doing this for you. You are taking responsibility for your sexuality and refusing to permit the vanilla prevailing culture from dictating to you what you ';should'; like or what a relationship is ';supposed'; to be like. That though you crave abandoning yourself to His wishes in bed, crave to beg Him to take you, you refuse to cede control of your act of submission to anyone.
If she won't leave you alone then fight fire with fire: tell her what a twit ultrafeminist teacher and author Andrea Dworkin was for saying no truly liberated and actualized woman could ever like penetration. Yeah, uh-huh. Because clearly in that case your mom is also a slave to the paternal paradigm. Which she obviously isn't. Just like you obviously aren't.
Side note: I applaud you for being so open and forthright about you sexuality. Your mom seems pretty cool actually - not a lot of parents would engage their children in such a deep conversation. Yeah, she doesn't get it. But give her time. Give her time. The central message of feminism (humanism applied to both genders) is that we as people are capable of forging our own destinies. She just needs to apply her feminism more broadly - and to include you!
Cheers and have fun!How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
its an intimate and private and personal too perference...you are grown up..why mum has to be in the pic?
decide and do it by yourself and your partner?
I think your best bet is to tell her that being submissive is how you express yourself sexually.
I know, you already have. I'm not saying you need to explain topping from the bottom or anything - not that I'm saying you ever do that! (Bad sub! Bad!)
But she should be able to understand that you have chosen this sexual lifestyle, that you are empowered by it, that it has nothing to do with how assertive or confident you are outside the bedroom (which I bet you are), and that it has nothing to do with societal female subjugation but with personal expression and liberation.
And no, tell her you are not just internalizing the predominant male-centered cultural bias! You are doing this for you. You are taking responsibility for your sexuality and refusing to permit the vanilla prevailing culture from dictating to you what you ';should'; like or what a relationship is ';supposed'; to be like. That though you crave abandoning yourself to His wishes in bed, crave to beg Him to take you, you refuse to cede control of your act of submission to anyone.
If she won't leave you alone then fight fire with fire: tell her what a twit ultrafeminist teacher and author Andrea Dworkin was for saying no truly liberated and actualized woman could ever like penetration. Yeah, uh-huh. Because clearly in that case your mom is also a slave to the paternal paradigm. Which she obviously isn't. Just like you obviously aren't.
Side note: I applaud you for being so open and forthright about you sexuality. Your mom seems pretty cool actually - not a lot of parents would engage their children in such a deep conversation. Yeah, she doesn't get it. But give her time. Give her time. The central message of feminism (humanism applied to both genders) is that we as people are capable of forging our own destinies. She just needs to apply her feminism more broadly - and to include you!
Cheers and have fun!How do I make my strong mother understand my need for submissive relationships?
its an intimate and private and personal too perference...you are grown up..why mum has to be in the pic?
decide and do it by yourself and your partner?
How do I develop the social skills to get and maintain relationships with women?
I feel like I can't relate to anyone. I have a mild form Asperger's Syndrome and Anxiety problems. It does hurt me when I deal with people.How do I develop the social skills to get and maintain relationships with women?
try going after fat girls and ugly girls first they are a lot easier to talk to and most pretty girls are bitchy.
but seriously although the above is true just try to talk to any girl in person and im sure a lot of ur fears will be put to rest they are all nice when you talk to them in person. public beach would be a great place to start because u will be easily forgotten there
and remember if they say negative things to u that is not cuz somethings wrong with you it means something is wrong with them, like screech from celeb fit camp somethin is wrong wit that guy!How do I develop the social skills to get and maintain relationships with women?
I don't know how far off base I am with my assumptions, so ignore me if I've got it all wrong.
Do you have a hard time making connections/meshing with people? Can you read social cues? That is, can you 'read' people? Women are often less direct than men, so it's vital to be able to read at least some of the subtext underlying the words coming out of our mouths.
You may want to read up on body language, it's a huge part of communication. Also try an etiquette book, it helps to know what's considered polite in many situations. Steer clear of books about reading women's body language, books that say you'll be able to pick up women at bars, etc. Guys that are trying to be smooth generally come off as a bit cheesy.
Good luck to you,
Many women these days are superficial and money hungry. They only want guys who are either rich or look like George Clooney. A decent good hearted quality woman is hard to find. Maybe you can find yourself a nice girl, at church or the library. I suggest not asking for help here at Yahoo Answers, because most of the people, including myself, are not qualified to help people with your type of needs. Take it easy
';Man are from Mars Woman are from Venus';, this book is really good. You can find most of the answer to your question about Woman.
It sounds like the best thing for you to do would be to get counseling from a psychologist. Given the way some people view mental health problems in our society, I know that this might sound scary, but it would probably help you a lot.
Also, there are prescription medicines that can help with many forms of anxiety, although they are not likely to be very helpful unless you combine them with counseling. A psychologist can not prescribe medicines for you, but if he or she thinks that they would be helpful, he could talk to your doctor about getting you a prescription.
One thing that happens a lot is that you and your psychologist might decide on some things that you want to try out when it comes to social interactions and relating to people. Even if you know it would probably help for you to do these things, you may feel too anxious to do them. It is in situations like this where medicines can usually help the most. If you take the anti-anxiety medicine and go do some things that you want to do but that make you feel bad or anxious, the medicines will help you get through it, and you will start to learn that these types of things can actually be fun, instead of just being nerve-wracking and unpleasant.
I am not a psychologist, psychiatrist, nor a doctor of any kind, but I hope this will help.
try going after fat girls and ugly girls first they are a lot easier to talk to and most pretty girls are bitchy.
but seriously although the above is true just try to talk to any girl in person and im sure a lot of ur fears will be put to rest they are all nice when you talk to them in person. public beach would be a great place to start because u will be easily forgotten there
and remember if they say negative things to u that is not cuz somethings wrong with you it means something is wrong with them, like screech from celeb fit camp somethin is wrong wit that guy!How do I develop the social skills to get and maintain relationships with women?
I don't know how far off base I am with my assumptions, so ignore me if I've got it all wrong.
Do you have a hard time making connections/meshing with people? Can you read social cues? That is, can you 'read' people? Women are often less direct than men, so it's vital to be able to read at least some of the subtext underlying the words coming out of our mouths.
You may want to read up on body language, it's a huge part of communication. Also try an etiquette book, it helps to know what's considered polite in many situations. Steer clear of books about reading women's body language, books that say you'll be able to pick up women at bars, etc. Guys that are trying to be smooth generally come off as a bit cheesy.
Good luck to you,
Many women these days are superficial and money hungry. They only want guys who are either rich or look like George Clooney. A decent good hearted quality woman is hard to find. Maybe you can find yourself a nice girl, at church or the library. I suggest not asking for help here at Yahoo Answers, because most of the people, including myself, are not qualified to help people with your type of needs. Take it easy
';Man are from Mars Woman are from Venus';, this book is really good. You can find most of the answer to your question about Woman.
It sounds like the best thing for you to do would be to get counseling from a psychologist. Given the way some people view mental health problems in our society, I know that this might sound scary, but it would probably help you a lot.
Also, there are prescription medicines that can help with many forms of anxiety, although they are not likely to be very helpful unless you combine them with counseling. A psychologist can not prescribe medicines for you, but if he or she thinks that they would be helpful, he could talk to your doctor about getting you a prescription.
One thing that happens a lot is that you and your psychologist might decide on some things that you want to try out when it comes to social interactions and relating to people. Even if you know it would probably help for you to do these things, you may feel too anxious to do them. It is in situations like this where medicines can usually help the most. If you take the anti-anxiety medicine and go do some things that you want to do but that make you feel bad or anxious, the medicines will help you get through it, and you will start to learn that these types of things can actually be fun, instead of just being nerve-wracking and unpleasant.
I am not a psychologist, psychiatrist, nor a doctor of any kind, but I hope this will help.
Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
Its frustrating. I think you need both. I'd be lonely if I had to talk to my bf all the time. I mean yes you love your S.O (significant other) but its a much bigger world by being friends with different people.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
I think in a friendship people tend to be more their true selves
and more accepting of the other person as they are. Whereas often in relationships people try to please the other or change the other person. That maybe what you are interpreting as effort.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
Relationships are so different from friendships. People want love ultimately. Family is that, no matter what. You can't love a friend if they backstab you, but if your mother did then that's another complicated story. People are paranoid and untrusting nowadays (sometimes for good reason). You can't make friends a part of family, but you can marry or think of marrying a girlfriend/boyfriend.
Also, friends rarely love you or show they care as much as a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they did then the person receiving that love is very lucky.
It is easier to maintain a friendship than a relationship.
Because normal friends don't end up living together.
A relationship is a bigger ship than friendship :-))
i think because their partner is somewhat more special, and they have deeper and serious feelings for them..u know the passion of love unto them...
not all do
dandra you pretty much said it! so true
its cuz ppl love em %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; dont wanna loose then so they push aside erithang to be with them..whhen you b.u (break-up) youll be like whoa i iwas stupid chose him over her :P
I think in a friendship people tend to be more their true selves
and more accepting of the other person as they are. Whereas often in relationships people try to please the other or change the other person. That maybe what you are interpreting as effort.Why do people make more of an effort in their romantic relationships than in their friendships?
Relationships are so different from friendships. People want love ultimately. Family is that, no matter what. You can't love a friend if they backstab you, but if your mother did then that's another complicated story. People are paranoid and untrusting nowadays (sometimes for good reason). You can't make friends a part of family, but you can marry or think of marrying a girlfriend/boyfriend.
Also, friends rarely love you or show they care as much as a boyfriend or girlfriend. If they did then the person receiving that love is very lucky.
It is easier to maintain a friendship than a relationship.
Because normal friends don't end up living together.
A relationship is a bigger ship than friendship :-))
i think because their partner is somewhat more special, and they have deeper and serious feelings for them..u know the passion of love unto them...
not all do
dandra you pretty much said it! so true
its cuz ppl love em %26amp;%26amp;%26amp; dont wanna loose then so they push aside erithang to be with them..whhen you b.u (break-up) youll be like whoa i iwas stupid chose him over her :P
Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
Can I suggest we all report her for spamming?Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
i haven't seen that. just click ';Report Abuse'; if it bothers you.Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
you do get spammers that do that!
maybe she doesn't talk in english, and that is the only thing that she knows how to say
she's wracking points
i haven't seen that. just click ';Report Abuse'; if it bothers you.Why does Sarah M keep giving exactly the same reply to every Relationships question?
you do get spammers that do that!
maybe she doesn't talk in english, and that is the only thing that she knows how to say
she's wracking points
What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
Do you sympathize with them? Or do you feel that they contribute to their own suffering by staying in the relationship? Also, please give me your reasons.What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
This is a very difficult question to answer. Any caring person feels empathy towards someone who is suffering, but it is difficult to continue wanting to help someone who seems unable, or unwilling, to help themselves - especially when the answer seems so clear to an objective observer.
I think the important thing to understand is that is a slow and destructive process to break down a woman, and it happens so slowly and subtley that she doesn't notice until it is too late. To stay in these relationships brings on a myriad of reasons - all of which make sense, in a strange way. They still love their partner, seems to be the top one, along with ';he's not like this ALL the time...';. They may fear their partner, but the abuse they have suffered has created a fear of what to expect from others, too. It's all about ';the devil you know';.
Finances is a huge one. A lot of these women find themselves unemployed, bills to pay, children to support...it's somehow easier to make excuses for your partner than try to make it on your own, especially after you have been told, over and over again, that you can't.
Another is a lack of support - by the time the abuse is at its' pinnacle, the abuser has successfully shut out or created a rift with every possible support person the woman had, family included. Imagine how hard it would be to walk away from an abuser when you feel that you have absolutely nowhere to go, no one to turn to and you don't believe that even your family would be willing to help you - now, imagine throwing children into this predicament - nobody wants to take their children to a shelter, disrupting their school/schedule and for a lot of women that comes with the fear of child services becoming involved, if they weren't already, and the fear of having their children taken away..
Which brings us to fear...fear of the abuser is often less frightening than the fear of the unknown. Fear of being judged for being weak willed and suffering the abuse (they, too, probably wondered why on earth any woman would tolerate abuse before they found themselves in that situation). Then there is the fear and shame of people around her knowing what has been going on behind closed door and talking and gossipping about it. Fear of having to find out if their abuser was right or wrong about their ability to function on their own.
Unfortunately, too many women enter unhealthy relationships because they don't have the proper respect for themselves to begin with, but this happens to strong and confident women, too.
Have sympathy and don't ever give up on a friend that you feel might be sinking into this trap - even if it is to just call when you know the partner is not at home and remind her, over her denials that anything at all is wrong, that you are always there for her.What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
A woman who is in a physically and/or verbally abusive relationship is generally in a situation where she is being told that she is completely worthless, not worth the time he is spending with/on her.
From someone who has been in an abusive (both physical and verbal) it's hard not to feel as they tell you.
Abusers will purposely try to get you as far from family and friends so that it is harder for them to leave...
It is harder to get out of verbally abusive relationship than it is a physical because it's harder to get proof that there is abuse, and it has a tendency to wear on the emotions...
I think they are afraid. Most people don't understand how much their self esteem has suffered. They are told that they are lucky to have the man and that he is doing it for their own good and that they won't do well in life without them and that they couldn't do anything without them. And after awhile.... they start to believe it. The man usually apologizes too says he sorry and won't to it again..... but then he does. I sympathize with them a lot.
they wouldn't be in abusive relationships if they had more self esteem and confidence.
I think you shouldn't judge unless you've walked a mile in their shoes.zits
This is a very difficult question to answer. Any caring person feels empathy towards someone who is suffering, but it is difficult to continue wanting to help someone who seems unable, or unwilling, to help themselves - especially when the answer seems so clear to an objective observer.
I think the important thing to understand is that is a slow and destructive process to break down a woman, and it happens so slowly and subtley that she doesn't notice until it is too late. To stay in these relationships brings on a myriad of reasons - all of which make sense, in a strange way. They still love their partner, seems to be the top one, along with ';he's not like this ALL the time...';. They may fear their partner, but the abuse they have suffered has created a fear of what to expect from others, too. It's all about ';the devil you know';.
Finances is a huge one. A lot of these women find themselves unemployed, bills to pay, children to support...it's somehow easier to make excuses for your partner than try to make it on your own, especially after you have been told, over and over again, that you can't.
Another is a lack of support - by the time the abuse is at its' pinnacle, the abuser has successfully shut out or created a rift with every possible support person the woman had, family included. Imagine how hard it would be to walk away from an abuser when you feel that you have absolutely nowhere to go, no one to turn to and you don't believe that even your family would be willing to help you - now, imagine throwing children into this predicament - nobody wants to take their children to a shelter, disrupting their school/schedule and for a lot of women that comes with the fear of child services becoming involved, if they weren't already, and the fear of having their children taken away..
Which brings us to fear...fear of the abuser is often less frightening than the fear of the unknown. Fear of being judged for being weak willed and suffering the abuse (they, too, probably wondered why on earth any woman would tolerate abuse before they found themselves in that situation). Then there is the fear and shame of people around her knowing what has been going on behind closed door and talking and gossipping about it. Fear of having to find out if their abuser was right or wrong about their ability to function on their own.
Unfortunately, too many women enter unhealthy relationships because they don't have the proper respect for themselves to begin with, but this happens to strong and confident women, too.
Have sympathy and don't ever give up on a friend that you feel might be sinking into this trap - even if it is to just call when you know the partner is not at home and remind her, over her denials that anything at all is wrong, that you are always there for her.What do you think of women who stay in physically/verbally abusive relationships?
A woman who is in a physically and/or verbally abusive relationship is generally in a situation where she is being told that she is completely worthless, not worth the time he is spending with/on her.
From someone who has been in an abusive (both physical and verbal) it's hard not to feel as they tell you.
Abusers will purposely try to get you as far from family and friends so that it is harder for them to leave...
It is harder to get out of verbally abusive relationship than it is a physical because it's harder to get proof that there is abuse, and it has a tendency to wear on the emotions...
I think they are afraid. Most people don't understand how much their self esteem has suffered. They are told that they are lucky to have the man and that he is doing it for their own good and that they won't do well in life without them and that they couldn't do anything without them. And after awhile.... they start to believe it. The man usually apologizes too says he sorry and won't to it again..... but then he does. I sympathize with them a lot.
they wouldn't be in abusive relationships if they had more self esteem and confidence.
I think you shouldn't judge unless you've walked a mile in their shoes.
Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
Now, I understand male teenagers have only one thing on their minds, But not mine... I mean, I'll admit it, I think about sex... SOMETIMES. But it's not all that important in a relationship, am I right? Males in my high school, (or at least the ones I've observed) almost always aim to have sex with that girl, and then leave them, only to go with do it with another... Ugh, it just agrivates me how idiotic they are.Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
to young./.Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
The only generalization you can make is that as we grow and mature, our standards and emotional needs change, from day to day as well as year to year.
As for the boys you describe, those aren't ';relationships';, they're conquests. The behavior is common but not typical of most boys. You apparently are only hanging out with girls who routinely give it away in an effort to attract boys and consequently routinely attract that kind of boy. Change your circle of friends and you will find boys who care about the person more than the possibility of sex.
High school and even college people are at that experimenting stage in their lives.
Some people mature faster than others, while some don't mature at all.
Age, maturity, hormones, experiences, upbringing, lifestyle, all play important roles in building relationships.
It has to do with maturity, and the fact that teenagers are just discovering who they are. Therefore, what they want and need is bound to change.
My parents were high school sweethearts, they have been married for 43 years this July.
L
The biggest reason for high school relationships not working out is simply that high school age is too young to be involved in a relationship - with sex or not doesn't really matter. Of course I didn't know that when I was that age.
Two words......Age.......Maturity..... Any questions??!!
Why would you want one to! The only thing I could think of at my HS graduation was--after tonight I'll never see any of these tedious people again.
raging hormones prevent you from remaining committed to one person.
when ur young u aren't mature. and..ur young is also why
to young./.Why do high school relationships have such a low percentage of working out?
The only generalization you can make is that as we grow and mature, our standards and emotional needs change, from day to day as well as year to year.
As for the boys you describe, those aren't ';relationships';, they're conquests. The behavior is common but not typical of most boys. You apparently are only hanging out with girls who routinely give it away in an effort to attract boys and consequently routinely attract that kind of boy. Change your circle of friends and you will find boys who care about the person more than the possibility of sex.
High school and even college people are at that experimenting stage in their lives.
Some people mature faster than others, while some don't mature at all.
Age, maturity, hormones, experiences, upbringing, lifestyle, all play important roles in building relationships.
It has to do with maturity, and the fact that teenagers are just discovering who they are. Therefore, what they want and need is bound to change.
My parents were high school sweethearts, they have been married for 43 years this July.
L
The biggest reason for high school relationships not working out is simply that high school age is too young to be involved in a relationship - with sex or not doesn't really matter. Of course I didn't know that when I was that age.
Two words......Age.......Maturity..... Any questions??!!
Why would you want one to! The only thing I could think of at my HS graduation was--after tonight I'll never see any of these tedious people again.
raging hormones prevent you from remaining committed to one person.
when ur young u aren't mature. and..ur young is also why
What are the 6 relationships of gas law?
Hello,
There're 4 variables for gas law (pressure, volume, temp, and # of moles). How do you write 6 algebraci equations that stating these relationships? And how do you describe them? (Like y is directly proportional to x).
Thank you! And I'll choose you as the best answer if you help me solve this!What are the 6 relationships of gas law?
uhm..is this what you're looking for:
*k=constant
*P= k/V (Pressure is indirectly proportional to Volume)
*V = kT Volume is directly proportional to Temperature)
*P = kT (Pressure is directly proportional to Temperature)
*just manipulate the equation [ P= (nRT)/V ] to get other equationsWhat are the 6 relationships of gas law?
PV = nRT
Volume varies with temp (pressure is constant)
Pressure varies with temp (volume is constant)
Volume indirectly varies with pressure (temp is constant)
Volume varies with moles (pressure and temp are constant)
Pressure varies with moles (volume and temp are constant)
1. If you have gas you won't have any relationships.
There're 4 variables for gas law (pressure, volume, temp, and # of moles). How do you write 6 algebraci equations that stating these relationships? And how do you describe them? (Like y is directly proportional to x).
Thank you! And I'll choose you as the best answer if you help me solve this!What are the 6 relationships of gas law?
uhm..is this what you're looking for:
*k=constant
*P= k/V (Pressure is indirectly proportional to Volume)
*V = kT Volume is directly proportional to Temperature)
*P = kT (Pressure is directly proportional to Temperature)
*just manipulate the equation [ P= (nRT)/V ] to get other equationsWhat are the 6 relationships of gas law?
PV = nRT
Volume varies with temp (pressure is constant)
Pressure varies with temp (volume is constant)
Volume indirectly varies with pressure (temp is constant)
Volume varies with moles (pressure and temp are constant)
Pressure varies with moles (volume and temp are constant)
1. If you have gas you won't have any relationships.
What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
I am a private person and I don't like explaining myself to people, only those I chose to open up with. I understand that sometimes people are curious, or just wish to help, but in most situations it serves me no purpose to get into such private matters with others. How do you deal with unwelcome enquires without sounding too harsh? What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
It's just a subtle way of asking do you ';do it'; and if so ';how much';
It's an optional question to answered in life cause its PRIVATE!What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
Just explain that you're not comfortable discussing those things, and try to change the subject. If they continue to press for details about private matters, tell them once again that you won't talk abou it, and if possible walk away.
Tell them you don't discuss private personal matters.
In a sarcastic yet humorous tone, ';I hook at night and strip at clubs during the day';.
';I don't kiss and tell';
It's just a subtle way of asking do you ';do it'; and if so ';how much';
It's an optional question to answered in life cause its PRIVATE!What do you say when people enquire about your sex life and relationships?
Just explain that you're not comfortable discussing those things, and try to change the subject. If they continue to press for details about private matters, tell them once again that you won't talk abou it, and if possible walk away.
Tell them you don't discuss private personal matters.
In a sarcastic yet humorous tone, ';I hook at night and strip at clubs during the day';.
';I don't kiss and tell';
What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
Are they scared of them? Are they friends with them?
I want serious answer people this is for a book.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
Many mythological versions of mermaids and their precursors lured sailors to their doom, or at least into slavery. Mermaids then could be in partnership with sharks, used by sharks to lure sailors, or could be sharks or shark-like creatures in disguise. Mermaids could also be protrayed as dolphin-like, by having a tendency to rescue sailors. Or, you could have rival races of mermaids that do both.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
If you're talking about factual mermaids: There aren't any, and therefore they can't have relationships with sharks.
If you're writing a fictional book, then they can have any relationship with sharks that you please.
Mermaids don't have to be scared of sharks. This is because Sharks aren't interested in them, since Mermaids don't have blood like we do, so Sharks don't smell them any more than other fish. And they're not as fast as mermaids.
the sharks won, obviously!
who wouldn't eat mermaid???
The sharks are the ';bad boys'; that the the merparents warned you about.
Bad and dangerous but oh, so sexy.
I want serious answer people this is for a book.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
Many mythological versions of mermaids and their precursors lured sailors to their doom, or at least into slavery. Mermaids then could be in partnership with sharks, used by sharks to lure sailors, or could be sharks or shark-like creatures in disguise. Mermaids could also be protrayed as dolphin-like, by having a tendency to rescue sailors. Or, you could have rival races of mermaids that do both.What are the mermaids relationships with sharks?
If you're talking about factual mermaids: There aren't any, and therefore they can't have relationships with sharks.
If you're writing a fictional book, then they can have any relationship with sharks that you please.
Mermaids don't have to be scared of sharks. This is because Sharks aren't interested in them, since Mermaids don't have blood like we do, so Sharks don't smell them any more than other fish. And they're not as fast as mermaids.
the sharks won, obviously!
who wouldn't eat mermaid???
The sharks are the ';bad boys'; that the the merparents warned you about.
Bad and dangerous but oh, so sexy.
Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
My sister and I just started talking to new people, and it seems like they are both playing games, and the same games at that(which is weird because they never met). The guy my sister is talking to rarely calls her, doesn't try to make time for her,when he comes to get her, it's at night. The girl I just stared talking to is the same way. I call her most of the time, and when I do she is either too busy, or she holds conversations with other people while she talks on the phone with me. She says she will call back and never calls. Both of these people approached me and my sister asking for a relationship,we didn't approach them. So, why are they playing games?Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
Shallowness, insecurity, being manipulative towards getting what they want - so my advice to you and your sis is ';Lose them';Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
well indrep I was gonna say that you need to tell them if you wanna be with this (foxy lady) %26lt; hand motions%26gt; you either show me some respect or I'll show you the door. Then I thought ooo
I should call the Woman I was with last Thursday.
Anyway maybe the people you and your sis are with want to build a relationship, not rush into things too fast, or whatever.
- ( insert your own adjective) and / or %26lt;motions%26gt; ;)
Shallowness, insecurity, being manipulative towards getting what they want - so my advice to you and your sis is ';Lose them';Why do people lie and play games at the beginning of relationships?
well indrep I was gonna say that you need to tell them if you wanna be with this (foxy lady) %26lt; hand motions%26gt; you either show me some respect or I'll show you the door. Then I thought ooo
I should call the Woman I was with last Thursday.
Anyway maybe the people you and your sis are with want to build a relationship, not rush into things too fast, or whatever.
- ( insert your own adjective) and / or %26lt;motions%26gt; ;)
Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
How do men get over women so fast? Why does it take women longer to cope after a split or one night stand? It seems like we are waiting by the phone for them to call or text, and sometimes they will, but sometimes they won't.Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
To be completely honest, as a guy, we dont get over relationships as fast. We just dont show it in public, therefore seeming like there is no problem. On the inside we cant get it off out chest and are feeling very much the same way as women. Maybe it depends on the guy, but thats just how it is for me. It really isnt easy for anyone in my opinion, and it takes plenty of time.
And we too wait by the phone for a call or text, trust me, we think women do the same thing...and they really do. Maybe we are in the middle of something, which is usually the reason i might take time to reply. Dont worry about this, it is a waste of time and it isnt something to worry about. But really, I dont agree with any of the other people here. This is what i think. Hope it helps!Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
its a guy/girl thing
Girls: when girls are little they always spend there time reading Cinderella stories and dreaming about becoming a princess with a prince and all that stuff. i guess all that fairy tale stuff stays with them as they grow older.
Guys: when they're kids they spend their time thinking about toys and action figures they think girls have cooties, and like girls, some of those feelings stay with them as they grow older.
Lol really, us guys are pigs. Not all of us, just about 60-70% of us. But if you think about, maybe that same guy your thinking about is actually waiting for you to call or text him...I say go for it.
woman are more emotion. and guys are more physical. just how our brains differ. one day the world will all be lesbians .lol.zits
To be completely honest, as a guy, we dont get over relationships as fast. We just dont show it in public, therefore seeming like there is no problem. On the inside we cant get it off out chest and are feeling very much the same way as women. Maybe it depends on the guy, but thats just how it is for me. It really isnt easy for anyone in my opinion, and it takes plenty of time.
And we too wait by the phone for a call or text, trust me, we think women do the same thing...and they really do. Maybe we are in the middle of something, which is usually the reason i might take time to reply. Dont worry about this, it is a waste of time and it isnt something to worry about. But really, I dont agree with any of the other people here. This is what i think. Hope it helps!Why do men get over emotional problems quicker then women in relationships?
its a guy/girl thing
Girls: when girls are little they always spend there time reading Cinderella stories and dreaming about becoming a princess with a prince and all that stuff. i guess all that fairy tale stuff stays with them as they grow older.
Guys: when they're kids they spend their time thinking about toys and action figures they think girls have cooties, and like girls, some of those feelings stay with them as they grow older.
Lol really, us guys are pigs. Not all of us, just about 60-70% of us. But if you think about, maybe that same guy your thinking about is actually waiting for you to call or text him...I say go for it.
woman are more emotion. and guys are more physical. just how our brains differ. one day the world will all be lesbians .lol.
How important should your parents option be on the people you have relationships with?
I was recently engaged to to someone that my parents practically hated and pressured me the whole time that I was with them.
My parents have wanted me to marry the same person since the 4th grade, so now that the other relationship is over they want me to try with to be with the person they chose.
How important should what they want be? They raised me, fed me, clothed me....IDK what to think.How important should your parents option be on the people you have relationships with?
People who live their lives to suit others, are rarely happy. I love my mother dearly, and I will always be thankful for my upbringing and that I never lacked for anything that I needed...however, that doesn't give her the right to dictate my actions/choices in my adult life.
You do not owe your parents anything just because they fed and clothed you. They chose to have children, and thus accepted that responsibility. You are an adult and have the right to live your life as you see fit. If they don't like it, that's their problem. You will never be happy making your decisions to suit them and not yourself.
My lover is black (I'm white). It would kill my mother to know this. However, if our relationship moves into something more serious I will tell her...and no matter how she reacts, I will not change my feelings toward him or leave him because she is unhappy with it (assuming she would be). I would let her know I love her, appreciate her, and hope she can be happy for me but that my life is mine to live and I'm going to live it as I see fit.
I hope you do what makes YOU happy...if you aren't interested in 4th grade girl, then tell your parents that. If they push it, ignore the issue and refuse to discuss it with them. Say ';this is how I feel and I'd appreciate you allowing me to live my life as I see fit';.
Good luck!
My parents have wanted me to marry the same person since the 4th grade, so now that the other relationship is over they want me to try with to be with the person they chose.
How important should what they want be? They raised me, fed me, clothed me....IDK what to think.How important should your parents option be on the people you have relationships with?
People who live their lives to suit others, are rarely happy. I love my mother dearly, and I will always be thankful for my upbringing and that I never lacked for anything that I needed...however, that doesn't give her the right to dictate my actions/choices in my adult life.
You do not owe your parents anything just because they fed and clothed you. They chose to have children, and thus accepted that responsibility. You are an adult and have the right to live your life as you see fit. If they don't like it, that's their problem. You will never be happy making your decisions to suit them and not yourself.
My lover is black (I'm white). It would kill my mother to know this. However, if our relationship moves into something more serious I will tell her...and no matter how she reacts, I will not change my feelings toward him or leave him because she is unhappy with it (assuming she would be). I would let her know I love her, appreciate her, and hope she can be happy for me but that my life is mine to live and I'm going to live it as I see fit.
I hope you do what makes YOU happy...if you aren't interested in 4th grade girl, then tell your parents that. If they push it, ignore the issue and refuse to discuss it with them. Say ';this is how I feel and I'd appreciate you allowing me to live my life as I see fit';.
Good luck!
How is market psychology related with stock market? and how does intermarket relationships play into it?
Is there any recorded data than can be found, where can see how the prices of stock market follow the psychology of overall market? and also, how does one market affect another? is there relationships? what about global relationships?How is market psychology related with stock market? and how does intermarket relationships play into it?
Stock prices REFLECT market psychology - i.e. the sum total of all the participants' action - and are reflected in stock charts.
Stock prices REFLECT market psychology - i.e. the sum total of all the participants' action - and are reflected in stock charts.
How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
like if you get in a bad fight, think you may get dumped, you get jealous, etc. there is that nauseating feeling in the stomach, i don't know what to do when i start to get these feelings.How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
Fix the trust and communication issue. the thing that causes those feelings is the idea that you don't trust that your girlfriend/boyfriend is faithful to you. The way I've always dealt with arguments is the idea that if someone was to die after I hung up on them because I was pissed off, I could never forgive myself for being an idiot and not settling it as soon as possible. Don't watch your words around your partner because your worried about what they may say, let them know exactly how you feel about everything.How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
Pepto Bismol.
talk to a trusted friend.
Fix the trust and communication issue. the thing that causes those feelings is the idea that you don't trust that your girlfriend/boyfriend is faithful to you. The way I've always dealt with arguments is the idea that if someone was to die after I hung up on them because I was pissed off, I could never forgive myself for being an idiot and not settling it as soon as possible. Don't watch your words around your partner because your worried about what they may say, let them know exactly how you feel about everything.How do you handle that sick to your stomach feeling in relationships?
Pepto Bismol.
talk to a trusted friend.
Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
Could you live without having romantic relationships, if not why?
Is it true that being constantly single can be mentally unhealthy for you?Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
I know lots of single people (mainly women) who have happy and fulfilled lives while others married to control freaks look like they couldn't care less if a bolt of lightening took them out tomorrow!
I think it depends whether you are male or female. I think males were found to be less healthy and die earlier than those in a partnership while females actually live longer.
Personally I think all that would change if you had a loving pet.Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
Hi MinJacp
Two questions for the price of one, tut tut you'll have big brother on to you.
(a). Yes one can live a happy and contented life without romantic relationships, but we're not designed to do so, that is why God Created Adam and Eve. God tells us to actively seek a 'mate' and multiply.
(b) As to the point you're trying to make about being constantly single being unhealthy or at least not consistent with a healthy mental attitude. Whilst it may be accurate to say that living your life in isolation is not con-formant to a healthy life style, that does not mean however that one must be in a romantic relationship to be happy, fulfilled and com-pus mantis. There are many different forms of relationship, that can provide mutual gratification, that is to say can be satisfactory on both sides of the relationship. Let's face it, if both sides of the relationship are not content then the relationship is
not working or not healthy in any case.
Personally speaking due to events that have occurred in my life I can't trust women and have no desire to enter into a same sex relationship therefore I find that having a friendly relationship with God keeps me on the right path and though I do have mental health issues it is not due to the fact that I'm not in a romantic relationship.
Any form of relationship can be unhealthy, just as a complete lack of a relationship can be unhealthy too.
It depends upon the person in question and the likely persons that s/he is likely to be involved with.
Look at it this way, water keeps you alive ....when you drink it. However, it can also kill you (eg Drowning).
So, when you ask 'Is it possible', of course it is ....a 'possibility', just as it is NOT possible to get to the Moon because (in my Grandmothers logic) 'No one has been there before'.
Sash.
Hey =],
In my opinion I think I really cannot , and a BIG cannot live without relationships, Well, I guess you will be able to live a happy life without relationships.... but , it gets depressing seeing your friends in a relationship when you're not, trust me I really have had this feeling .. so many times =[ .
And Yes sorry to say but , being constantly single CAN be mentally unhealthy for you it gets VERY depressing... but and there is a big but, if you REALLY don't want to be in a relationship then go buy a pet .. like a Dog or something, it helps =] .
Good Luck!
-Jas,xox
Hope I Helped x
I think it depends on the person. Some people are very needy and need to have a lot of friends and romantic relationships to make them feel like they are not alone. On the other hand, there are people who are very independent and focused more on life choices than relationships, and they are happy with just having many good friends.
I think it is possible. Just focus on being happy, and the right person may just come your way =]
How to Master the Art of Hapiness:
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Don't worry, be happy =]
You could but yes it is true, people who live alone, tend to live shorter than people who don't
That is why single people have dogs
i could live happy without having a relationship. but, i get depressed seeing all my friends in relationships and such.
keep asking questions on the internet instead of having real friends and you'll eventually find out.
yeah its possible ,
think about nuns and monks
Is it true that being constantly single can be mentally unhealthy for you?Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
I know lots of single people (mainly women) who have happy and fulfilled lives while others married to control freaks look like they couldn't care less if a bolt of lightening took them out tomorrow!
I think it depends whether you are male or female. I think males were found to be less healthy and die earlier than those in a partnership while females actually live longer.
Personally I think all that would change if you had a loving pet.Is it possible to be live a happy life without having romantic relationships?
Hi MinJacp
Two questions for the price of one, tut tut you'll have big brother on to you.
(a). Yes one can live a happy and contented life without romantic relationships, but we're not designed to do so, that is why God Created Adam and Eve. God tells us to actively seek a 'mate' and multiply.
(b) As to the point you're trying to make about being constantly single being unhealthy or at least not consistent with a healthy mental attitude. Whilst it may be accurate to say that living your life in isolation is not con-formant to a healthy life style, that does not mean however that one must be in a romantic relationship to be happy, fulfilled and com-pus mantis. There are many different forms of relationship, that can provide mutual gratification, that is to say can be satisfactory on both sides of the relationship. Let's face it, if both sides of the relationship are not content then the relationship is
not working or not healthy in any case.
Personally speaking due to events that have occurred in my life I can't trust women and have no desire to enter into a same sex relationship therefore I find that having a friendly relationship with God keeps me on the right path and though I do have mental health issues it is not due to the fact that I'm not in a romantic relationship.
Any form of relationship can be unhealthy, just as a complete lack of a relationship can be unhealthy too.
It depends upon the person in question and the likely persons that s/he is likely to be involved with.
Look at it this way, water keeps you alive ....when you drink it. However, it can also kill you (eg Drowning).
So, when you ask 'Is it possible', of course it is ....a 'possibility', just as it is NOT possible to get to the Moon because (in my Grandmothers logic) 'No one has been there before'.
Sash.
Hey =],
In my opinion I think I really cannot , and a BIG cannot live without relationships, Well, I guess you will be able to live a happy life without relationships.... but , it gets depressing seeing your friends in a relationship when you're not, trust me I really have had this feeling .. so many times =[ .
And Yes sorry to say but , being constantly single CAN be mentally unhealthy for you it gets VERY depressing... but and there is a big but, if you REALLY don't want to be in a relationship then go buy a pet .. like a Dog or something, it helps =] .
Good Luck!
-Jas,xox
Hope I Helped x
I think it depends on the person. Some people are very needy and need to have a lot of friends and romantic relationships to make them feel like they are not alone. On the other hand, there are people who are very independent and focused more on life choices than relationships, and they are happy with just having many good friends.
I think it is possible. Just focus on being happy, and the right person may just come your way =]
How to Master the Art of Hapiness:
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Don't worry, be happy =]
You could but yes it is true, people who live alone, tend to live shorter than people who don't
That is why single people have dogs
i could live happy without having a relationship. but, i get depressed seeing all my friends in relationships and such.
keep asking questions on the internet instead of having real friends and you'll eventually find out.
yeah its possible ,
think about nuns and monks
What does the Saturn conjunct AC transit include and how good for relationships?
also, which kinds of feelings, circumstances are included most often?
and how the transit fromt the 12th hosue to the 1st changes your way of thinking and life?
please explain and describe what you know or experienced
thanks for your answers!What does the Saturn conjunct AC transit include and how good for relationships?
Whenever Saturn is involved in a transit, it involves the pain of learning lessons and also promise of results and rewards to be reaped.
Often when a person's Ascendant is conjuncted by Saturn in transit, it can lead to feelings of depression, oppression, or even repression. However, by seeing what is obsolete and methodically and maturely eliminating old structures of doing or experiencing, we can find our way to our true selves, freed from prejudices and traps of fear or limiting behaviors that stifle our Spirit.
A Saturn transit is a time when we get clear about who we are and who we aren't. Saturn deepens whatever it touches. When Saturn forms a conjunction with the Ascendant, there is a real sense that we've grown up, and usually have to deal with heavy responsibilities or duties that show us how mature we are. There often are feelings of being weary with the world. It's a serious time, where our purpose is examined with an eye to the future to a degree we usually avoid.
We tend to be more serious when Saturn conjuncts our Ascendant, and are capable of undertaking more tedious tasks, accepting duties we may not feel like doing. Things seem more weighty during a Saturn transit, not surprising since Saturn symbolizes density.
When Saturn conjuncts the Ascendant a part of your self-image is being demolished so as to speak, to be replaced with a new way of being in relationships. The Ascendant represents your unique personality, your social mask, distinguishing you from everyone else born on your birthday.
Hence, we often accept new responsibilities and long range tasks. We definitely feel our age under a Saturn transit, and tends to eliminate everything that's a drag or burden on their part. Saturn usually conjuncts our Ascendant more than once in a life, usually twice (three times if we live to our '80s) and each time we end old lessons and regain our sense of purpose while redefining our self-definition of power, authority, influence and our instinctive self.
However long the transit, and however intense the inner process, there is a distinct shift when that planet emerges from the 12th house into the 1st. With slower moving planets, the energetic change can be gradual, as they cross the Ascendant, then retrograde back into the 12th a couple of times.
Let’s use Jupiter as an example. As Jupiter spends a scant year in each house in turn, it is there long enough to notice the effect of the transit on the matters of the house yet short enough to notice the sequence it creates when it moves along to the next. During Jupiter’s year in the 11th, there’s often a social whirl that seems to give way to a time of contemplative solitude during its sojourn in the 12th. People instinctively pull inward to contemplate their life direction and observe their emotional life. The 12th house is the house of the ashram, and a Hindu word for Jupiter is Guru, so even those who have not been especially drawn to spiritual practices may find themselves studying philosophy more seriously.
These, of course, are the more positive expressions of Jupiter, which is supposedly very fortunate in this house. Still, Jupiter is inclined to excess, so this transit can exaggerate any self-destructive behavior patterns, as represented by natal 12th house placements. People overdo wildly in the belief that, “I can get away with it, God is on my side, and anyway I won’t get caught.” For those inclined to addiction or overeating, Jupiter’s thirst for More and More can lead to an intensification of the addiction.
When Jupiter shifts from the 12th into the 1st, the person who has taken the higher path with this transit moves out of self-imposed isolation with a new enthusiasm and sense of purpose. Having learned some important new truths during their period of study and contemplation, they may now feel they have something important to impart, so they may begin teaching or preaching. The signs of natal and transiting Jupiter determine what it is they want to teach and whether they are gifted at it or merely arrogant and opinionated. All the same, the year of quiet retreat with Jupiter in the 12th tends to rekindle energy and hopefulness.
Contrast that with Saturn’s two-year or longer sojourn in the 12th. In anticipating what it might bring, it is important to have a thorough understanding of Saturn’s natal condition—sign, house, and aspects. It is also instructive to assess how the individual, at this stage of life, meets Saturn’s demands for responsibility, maturity, self-discipline, accomplishment, and dealing with authority figures. If the individual is handling those functions well, there is less chance that a 12th house passage will bring unwanted repercussions.
If, however, the individual typically behaves irresponsibly and immaturely, has no real purpose in life or career direction, and expects authority figures to take on the role of indulgent parents, then Saturn’s passage through the 12th may well b
and how the transit fromt the 12th hosue to the 1st changes your way of thinking and life?
please explain and describe what you know or experienced
thanks for your answers!What does the Saturn conjunct AC transit include and how good for relationships?
Whenever Saturn is involved in a transit, it involves the pain of learning lessons and also promise of results and rewards to be reaped.
Often when a person's Ascendant is conjuncted by Saturn in transit, it can lead to feelings of depression, oppression, or even repression. However, by seeing what is obsolete and methodically and maturely eliminating old structures of doing or experiencing, we can find our way to our true selves, freed from prejudices and traps of fear or limiting behaviors that stifle our Spirit.
A Saturn transit is a time when we get clear about who we are and who we aren't. Saturn deepens whatever it touches. When Saturn forms a conjunction with the Ascendant, there is a real sense that we've grown up, and usually have to deal with heavy responsibilities or duties that show us how mature we are. There often are feelings of being weary with the world. It's a serious time, where our purpose is examined with an eye to the future to a degree we usually avoid.
We tend to be more serious when Saturn conjuncts our Ascendant, and are capable of undertaking more tedious tasks, accepting duties we may not feel like doing. Things seem more weighty during a Saturn transit, not surprising since Saturn symbolizes density.
When Saturn conjuncts the Ascendant a part of your self-image is being demolished so as to speak, to be replaced with a new way of being in relationships. The Ascendant represents your unique personality, your social mask, distinguishing you from everyone else born on your birthday.
Hence, we often accept new responsibilities and long range tasks. We definitely feel our age under a Saturn transit, and tends to eliminate everything that's a drag or burden on their part. Saturn usually conjuncts our Ascendant more than once in a life, usually twice (three times if we live to our '80s) and each time we end old lessons and regain our sense of purpose while redefining our self-definition of power, authority, influence and our instinctive self.
However long the transit, and however intense the inner process, there is a distinct shift when that planet emerges from the 12th house into the 1st. With slower moving planets, the energetic change can be gradual, as they cross the Ascendant, then retrograde back into the 12th a couple of times.
Let’s use Jupiter as an example. As Jupiter spends a scant year in each house in turn, it is there long enough to notice the effect of the transit on the matters of the house yet short enough to notice the sequence it creates when it moves along to the next. During Jupiter’s year in the 11th, there’s often a social whirl that seems to give way to a time of contemplative solitude during its sojourn in the 12th. People instinctively pull inward to contemplate their life direction and observe their emotional life. The 12th house is the house of the ashram, and a Hindu word for Jupiter is Guru, so even those who have not been especially drawn to spiritual practices may find themselves studying philosophy more seriously.
These, of course, are the more positive expressions of Jupiter, which is supposedly very fortunate in this house. Still, Jupiter is inclined to excess, so this transit can exaggerate any self-destructive behavior patterns, as represented by natal 12th house placements. People overdo wildly in the belief that, “I can get away with it, God is on my side, and anyway I won’t get caught.” For those inclined to addiction or overeating, Jupiter’s thirst for More and More can lead to an intensification of the addiction.
When Jupiter shifts from the 12th into the 1st, the person who has taken the higher path with this transit moves out of self-imposed isolation with a new enthusiasm and sense of purpose. Having learned some important new truths during their period of study and contemplation, they may now feel they have something important to impart, so they may begin teaching or preaching. The signs of natal and transiting Jupiter determine what it is they want to teach and whether they are gifted at it or merely arrogant and opinionated. All the same, the year of quiet retreat with Jupiter in the 12th tends to rekindle energy and hopefulness.
Contrast that with Saturn’s two-year or longer sojourn in the 12th. In anticipating what it might bring, it is important to have a thorough understanding of Saturn’s natal condition—sign, house, and aspects. It is also instructive to assess how the individual, at this stage of life, meets Saturn’s demands for responsibility, maturity, self-discipline, accomplishment, and dealing with authority figures. If the individual is handling those functions well, there is less chance that a 12th house passage will bring unwanted repercussions.
If, however, the individual typically behaves irresponsibly and immaturely, has no real purpose in life or career direction, and expects authority figures to take on the role of indulgent parents, then Saturn’s passage through the 12th may well b
How do i keep relationships on kudos the game?
Im playing kudos the pc game and i am dating someone on it, can the relationships go further than dating? And how do i keep the relationship because they dont like doing things all the time and they dont like much!How do i keep relationships on kudos the game?
btw is ur last name mclaffity cuz if it is i no u xzits
btw is ur last name mclaffity cuz if it is i no u x
How do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
I'm interested in this guy who is from Italy and is currently living in my town... But I'm unsure how to approach him romantically because it seems Italians go about older teen relationships differently.
What's different? Do they overall move faster? THANKSHow do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
I'd take your time if I were you. Don't be too brassy, don't get drunk on a date, take things slowly.
I'm not suggesting you are brassy, alcoholic or 'of dubious morals'!! But I know that Italian men generally don't appreciate these things.How do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
Depends on the age of each individual. Usually, Italian men and women, go out on dates, we like the whole ';wine and dine'; experience, we like to ';seduce'; the person we are attracted to.
To the first answerer: Ma di che cosa stai parlando? Non hai capito bene la domanda?
Don't worry and be yourself... if you have a different behavior (from your behavior with american people) with this guy, he could misunderstand you. We aren't so different from you... we aren't aliens! ;-)
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mistress? are you crazy?
Well they consider having mistresses to be normal and not a big deal
What's different? Do they overall move faster? THANKSHow do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
I'd take your time if I were you. Don't be too brassy, don't get drunk on a date, take things slowly.
I'm not suggesting you are brassy, alcoholic or 'of dubious morals'!! But I know that Italian men generally don't appreciate these things.How do Italians approach relationships differently in comparrison to Americans?
Depends on the age of each individual. Usually, Italian men and women, go out on dates, we like the whole ';wine and dine'; experience, we like to ';seduce'; the person we are attracted to.
To the first answerer: Ma di che cosa stai parlando? Non hai capito bene la domanda?
Don't worry and be yourself... if you have a different behavior (from your behavior with american people) with this guy, he could misunderstand you. We aren't so different from you... we aren't aliens! ;-)
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mistress? are you crazy?
Well they consider having mistresses to be normal and not a big deal
Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
This means we only do things because something is coming back to us. Also how can I get people to help me and do things for me when I help them?Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
Social exchange theory is a useful but not a sufficient approach to understanding social relationships. It is useful in understanding a lot of social behaviour but there are at least two ways in which it fails:
(a). It omits the concept of power so the broader social relationships between major corporations their employees, their overseas cheap labor, their customers and with government, cannot be adequately interpreted through exchange theory alone.
This impacts on us in our own everyday lives too. For example think of the day to day impact of the problems of
-not being to meet home loan repayments
-increased costs of petrol (gas)
-negotiating work hours that fit with the needs of the ordinary family.
.
(b) in addition your point about the exclusion of reasons other than self interest affecting our day to day relationships is a good one. For example did you see in the TV coverage of the marathon race in Beijing yesterday that one of the runners passed a bottle of water to his competitor without any likelihood of such a favour being returned So even in situations in which we'd expect people to be entirely self interested, Social Exchange theory is not sufficient...
How to make social exchange theory work for you? Perhaps
a)by using it as a long term strategy as well as an immediate tactic.
b) keeping this strategy for formal relationships with your employer or with bureaucracies..
None of us like to feel we are being used by our friends.
Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
Yes i think relationships are based on social exchange theory. How can you love someone who doesnt love you back, or someone who doesnt put in the same effort you do into a relationship.
when you help others you shouldnt expect anything in return. If you did that would be more like a bargain.
Social exchange theory is a useful but not a sufficient approach to understanding social relationships. It is useful in understanding a lot of social behaviour but there are at least two ways in which it fails:
(a). It omits the concept of power so the broader social relationships between major corporations their employees, their overseas cheap labor, their customers and with government, cannot be adequately interpreted through exchange theory alone.
This impacts on us in our own everyday lives too. For example think of the day to day impact of the problems of
-not being to meet home loan repayments
-increased costs of petrol (gas)
-negotiating work hours that fit with the needs of the ordinary family.
.
(b) in addition your point about the exclusion of reasons other than self interest affecting our day to day relationships is a good one. For example did you see in the TV coverage of the marathon race in Beijing yesterday that one of the runners passed a bottle of water to his competitor without any likelihood of such a favour being returned So even in situations in which we'd expect people to be entirely self interested, Social Exchange theory is not sufficient...
How to make social exchange theory work for you? Perhaps
a)by using it as a long term strategy as well as an immediate tactic.
b) keeping this strategy for formal relationships with your employer or with bureaucracies..
None of us like to feel we are being used by our friends.
Do you believe most relationships are based on social exchange theory?
Yes i think relationships are based on social exchange theory. How can you love someone who doesnt love you back, or someone who doesnt put in the same effort you do into a relationship.
when you help others you shouldnt expect anything in return. If you did that would be more like a bargain.
What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
A couple of my friends have girlfriends who are also my friends. The girls and sweet the guys are swell but looking from the outside in their relationships are rough and sometimes absolutely ridiculous.
Some of the drama that they have just makes me think they should try dating boys. Lol. Just once. They might like it better. Haha.
Do any of you think the same sometimes?What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I know that I was dating girls to partially cover up/lie to myself about my sexuality, and a lot of my relationships ended badly. Then I came out to myself and came clean about my sexuality and am loving life. I know looking out for guys is more fun than for girls, and there is this one guy at work. Yeah, lets just say I think I'm in love.What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I've never thought switching lanes is the answer to guys in crappy relationships (hey, it could be? 0_o), but this week's been WROUGHT with my guy friends spilling their problems on me.
I guess that's what I get for being the Lesbian Voice of Reason. :)
I have two friends who are sickeningly sweet on the outside, but if you're around one of them alone all they do is talk about hating the other. It's pretty sad.
Nope. If there's one thing the gay community doesn't need any more of, it's people prone to drama.
Some of the drama that they have just makes me think they should try dating boys. Lol. Just once. They might like it better. Haha.
Do any of you think the same sometimes?What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I know that I was dating girls to partially cover up/lie to myself about my sexuality, and a lot of my relationships ended badly. Then I came out to myself and came clean about my sexuality and am loving life. I know looking out for guys is more fun than for girls, and there is this one guy at work. Yeah, lets just say I think I'm in love.What do you think about straight guy friends with train wreck relationships?
I've never thought switching lanes is the answer to guys in crappy relationships (hey, it could be? 0_o), but this week's been WROUGHT with my guy friends spilling their problems on me.
I guess that's what I get for being the Lesbian Voice of Reason. :)
I have two friends who are sickeningly sweet on the outside, but if you're around one of them alone all they do is talk about hating the other. It's pretty sad.
Nope. If there's one thing the gay community doesn't need any more of, it's people prone to drama.
Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
I am a 31 year old woman. I just got out of a 1 year long seriously problematic relationship with a guy. We were way to different to ever make it work and that is very clear to both of us. Still, it is the hardest thing I ever had to do: Leave him and move on. When we had so many problems I would have thought I would be relieved, but I am completly destroyed and wonder why a hard relationship is so hard to leave?Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
It's impact left a imprint on you emotional nerve endings. He touched you seriously and the desire to stay was destroyed because of the problem of the relationship with him. It's always harder to leave something deep down you wish had been different. A wrong turn here and there making this null and void. Now you are left without being relieved and replenished. It will take time to return to some normalcy. A better guy w'o a problem will be your blessing for endurance.......(Life for you has to return to some fairness after all)Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
Sure, your most welcome....
Because along with finding forgiveness for him, you have to forgive yourself for the time you spent with him.
Maybe for putting up with things you think you shouldn't have.
Maybe you worked extra hard to fix it all and it still didn't work.
you stuck around longer and dealt with more crap than you normally would. therefore, you put more of an effort into the relationship, which means that you cared more.
If it weren't problematic, we wouldn't leave.
We get used to the drama and at some point may even need it.
We are creatures of habit and it takes about 28 day's to create a habit, bad habits sneak up on us and good habits have to be created,they both take the same time to set. Most see habits as a physical thing and don't see that habits start as a thought' there is a 5 step proses to healthy thought. First we get a THOUGHT and we have thousands of thoughts every day and it depends on the second part of the proses EMOTE, this is were we rape the thought in emotion our emotions control our memory and this is were the problem can start. We can get caught in a loop of think and emote and not get to the third part of the proses which is SEEK %26amp; SEARCH It is important that we don't carry our emotional thoughts into this part of the proses as if we do it can block us from seeing a clear picture, We think in pictures and not words and seek %26amp; search is were we can access our pictures. the more emotion connected to the picture the clearer we see, this is why it is easier to help others with a problem. Because we are not personally connected to there emotions we can use seek %26amp; search without our personal emotions getting in the way we can see a clearer picture to the problem. If we can stop thinking emotionally then we can move into seek %26amp; search and give ourselves good advise if not then its were depression starts we get stuck in a loop of the first 2 stages and when we try to use seek %26amp; search its clouded by bad emotions. If we move into s%26amp;s without identerfing the power of emote we can manafest things that arn't real. If we can use the first 3 steps of thought to our advantage then we can move into the 4th proses of thought which is ACTION this is were we can act out our thoughts with converdence and do something or say something. When we get to this point of the proses we have learnt something and created Knowelage or knowing and that completes the 5 step proses of one thought. We all need to learn how to get over ourselves through acceptance we create understanding just accept your dessission and move on. I hope you have learnt something about yourself and don't repeat the things that have lead you to this point in your life Personal Development is the key learn to understand yourself before you can understant others. The way we grow is to Know .
It's impact left a imprint on you emotional nerve endings. He touched you seriously and the desire to stay was destroyed because of the problem of the relationship with him. It's always harder to leave something deep down you wish had been different. A wrong turn here and there making this null and void. Now you are left without being relieved and replenished. It will take time to return to some normalcy. A better guy w'o a problem will be your blessing for endurance.......(Life for you has to return to some fairness after all)Why are the problematic relationships more dificult to get over?
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Because along with finding forgiveness for him, you have to forgive yourself for the time you spent with him.
Maybe for putting up with things you think you shouldn't have.
Maybe you worked extra hard to fix it all and it still didn't work.
you stuck around longer and dealt with more crap than you normally would. therefore, you put more of an effort into the relationship, which means that you cared more.
If it weren't problematic, we wouldn't leave.
We get used to the drama and at some point may even need it.
We are creatures of habit and it takes about 28 day's to create a habit, bad habits sneak up on us and good habits have to be created,they both take the same time to set. Most see habits as a physical thing and don't see that habits start as a thought' there is a 5 step proses to healthy thought. First we get a THOUGHT and we have thousands of thoughts every day and it depends on the second part of the proses EMOTE, this is were we rape the thought in emotion our emotions control our memory and this is were the problem can start. We can get caught in a loop of think and emote and not get to the third part of the proses which is SEEK %26amp; SEARCH It is important that we don't carry our emotional thoughts into this part of the proses as if we do it can block us from seeing a clear picture, We think in pictures and not words and seek %26amp; search is were we can access our pictures. the more emotion connected to the picture the clearer we see, this is why it is easier to help others with a problem. Because we are not personally connected to there emotions we can use seek %26amp; search without our personal emotions getting in the way we can see a clearer picture to the problem. If we can stop thinking emotionally then we can move into seek %26amp; search and give ourselves good advise if not then its were depression starts we get stuck in a loop of the first 2 stages and when we try to use seek %26amp; search its clouded by bad emotions. If we move into s%26amp;s without identerfing the power of emote we can manafest things that arn't real. If we can use the first 3 steps of thought to our advantage then we can move into the 4th proses of thought which is ACTION this is were we can act out our thoughts with converdence and do something or say something. When we get to this point of the proses we have learnt something and created Knowelage or knowing and that completes the 5 step proses of one thought. We all need to learn how to get over ourselves through acceptance we create understanding just accept your dessission and move on. I hope you have learnt something about yourself and don't repeat the things that have lead you to this point in your life Personal Development is the key learn to understand yourself before you can understant others. The way we grow is to Know .
What is a good title for a lab report on mass relationships in a chemical reaction?
The reaction in the experiment is: Na2CO3+2HCl----%26gt;CO2+H2O+2NaClWhat is a good title for a lab report on mass relationships in a chemical reaction?
';Mass Relationships of a Chemical Reaction';zits
';Mass Relationships of a Chemical Reaction';
Saturday, August 21, 2010
How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
In movies, people are in year 12, and they always seem to be worrying about who they like, and dating but no one seems bothered about exams or anything. My parents always said year 12 exams are the most important of my school because it gets me into college. They say college is when people can relax and stuff, but it seems the opposite to me.How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
Have you tried studying with that certain someone or cutting back on the amount of time with them to study. Its true that senior year exams are the most important and you shouldn't take the easy classes that year, instead take challenging ones so you are prepared for the exams.
You don't have to take the most difficult ones because you become way to stressed out and this may lead back to relationship problem.How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
Probably because a lot of people can't stop thinking about sex whereas I am still a virgin and I'm 19(believe it or not) and I'm in no rush to change that. Personally I am more interested in sorting out my career that getting laid or having a relationship.
Have you tried studying with that certain someone or cutting back on the amount of time with them to study. Its true that senior year exams are the most important and you shouldn't take the easy classes that year, instead take challenging ones so you are prepared for the exams.
You don't have to take the most difficult ones because you become way to stressed out and this may lead back to relationship problem.How can ppl find the time to concentrate on studying and relationships?
Probably because a lot of people can't stop thinking about sex whereas I am still a virgin and I'm 19(believe it or not) and I'm in no rush to change that. Personally I am more interested in sorting out my career that getting laid or having a relationship.
Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
Please help me Guys %26amp; Girls! Who are the best lovers and romantic male american partners in California?
Lately i found out that guys from California can be fit and tall and educated. I am naurally good looking, a performance artist and i take excellent care of my self and i am fit lean and hot, so i do not an obese american for husband.
Can good looking americans males between 36 and 40 also be good lovers and good romantic partners, who are committed to the relationship, or they are mostly after just sex?Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
I think you shouldn't put men into groups. It all depends on the person. Sex is one of the basic human needs, and most men do make that their top priority, but not all men do. Just try and find his motives. My advice would be to not have sex and if that bothers him, then he is only after sex. If he is truly into you he can wait until you are married to him, if you get married.Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
Compliments about yourself are more credible when someone else other than yourself is giving them.
American guys of all ages are and can be in serious relationships.
Relationships are based on more than romance and good sex with our American Men.
Honey, with that attitude your not going to get anything better than the guys who are just as shallow as you. And yes, they will probably only be interested in just sex.
Lately i found out that guys from California can be fit and tall and educated. I am naurally good looking, a performance artist and i take excellent care of my self and i am fit lean and hot, so i do not an obese american for husband.
Can good looking americans males between 36 and 40 also be good lovers and good romantic partners, who are committed to the relationship, or they are mostly after just sex?Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
I think you shouldn't put men into groups. It all depends on the person. Sex is one of the basic human needs, and most men do make that their top priority, but not all men do. Just try and find his motives. My advice would be to not have sex and if that bothers him, then he is only after sex. If he is truly into you he can wait until you are married to him, if you get married.Can american males from 36 to 40 be in to commited relationships?
Compliments about yourself are more credible when someone else other than yourself is giving them.
American guys of all ages are and can be in serious relationships.
Relationships are based on more than romance and good sex with our American Men.
Honey, with that attitude your not going to get anything better than the guys who are just as shallow as you. And yes, they will probably only be interested in just sex.
How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
Please help with a complete answer and explain. ahh im so confused!How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
Biochemical relationships are limited to comparing living life forms and their genetic relationships. Extinct forms of life must be compared using more traditional methods.How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
this is sooo weird! i googled this question and it brought me here- you asked this question one year ago and on my homeowrk it has the exact same thing...were you doing an amino acid sequences to determine evolutionary relationships packet?
The use of biochemical analysis of DNA and proteins is nothing new in regards to this topic.
http://evonet.sdsc.edu/evoscisociety/wha鈥?/a>
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/About/primer鈥?/a>
http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/behe/pub鈥?/a>
http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/article鈥?/a>
Biochemical relationships are limited to comparing living life forms and their genetic relationships. Extinct forms of life must be compared using more traditional methods.How to biochemical comparison different from other methods of determining evolutionary relationships?
this is sooo weird! i googled this question and it brought me here- you asked this question one year ago and on my homeowrk it has the exact same thing...were you doing an amino acid sequences to determine evolutionary relationships packet?
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The use of biochemical analysis of DNA and proteins is nothing new in regards to this topic.
http://evonet.sdsc.edu/evoscisociety/wha鈥?/a>
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/About/primer鈥?/a>
http://www.talkorigins.org/faqs/behe/pub鈥?/a>
http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/article鈥?/a>
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