It seems that there are a lot of gay people around now but my brother said that gay people have been around since Cesar's time...I just want to know how far back can same sex relationships be traced. *By the way, I'm not prejudiced just curious.How long has same sex relationships been around?
A very very very long timeHow long has same sex relationships been around?
History shows that bisexuality has been around for a long time. Sadly, it has been recorded more than homosexuality.
The best example I can give you, like the guy above, is ancient greece. Society back then was very divided by gender, boys would only study, talk, socialize with other boys, thus resulting in a lot of bisexuals. It was actually consider normal back then.
Another example close to that time and registered in history is actually,l believe it or not, Sparta. Sparta was a society were men will go alone and live the women behind to fight wars. This, like in greece, also resulted in a lot of bisexuality.
You can look all of this up. Hope it helped.
before cesar actually in ancient egypt
there was
Khnumhotep and Niankhkhnum around 2400BC they shared the title
';Overseer of the Manicurists in the Palace of the King, King's Acquaintance and Royal Confidant.';
meaning that it was acceptable in ancient egypt to have homosexual relationships for they were one of the few allowed to touch the pharaoh and they would not have had the post had homosexuality not been accepted
Niankhkhnum means ';joined to life'; and Khnumhotep means ';joined to 'the blessed state of the dead''; and together the names can be translated as ';joined in life and joined in death';
In the old testament (if you believe what it has to say) The city of Sodom was filled with people having sex with each other, men with men and women with women, the men of sodom even went to rape the angels that came to save Lot. Now whether you believe in the bible or not is really irrelevant. The book of Genesis began as a part of the roughly 900 documents found among the dead sea scrolls dating as far back as 150 BC if not more. Weather you believe the text is true or not there must have been homosexual sex at the time for someone to have written about it.
As long as opposite sex relationships have been around. It's not a matter of society, it's a matter of biology. A percentage of people have been born gay (or bi, pan, trans, etc) throughout history and always will be.
The reason you see it more today is because slowly our culture is becoming more tolerant of these lifestyles and the people living them feel safer displaying who they truly are in public. Let's hope the upward trend continues =]
The evidence goes back as far as the Bronze Age, shortly after the advent of writting, but given that we see same-sex relationships in other species, it is very likely that same-sex relationships are as old as humanity.
same sex relationships are quite common among both human beings and animals, so I guess to answer your question the relationships have been around far before humanity.
The earliest mention in the the Bible of such conduct is found in Genesis 19:5. Other than that...? I've no idea.
As far back as recorded history.
I guarantee there were cavemen who were shacking up together. That's how far back it goes.
Since the beginning of time.
Forever...Even Lincoln was a pole chaser.
Since day one.
in ancient greece, bisexuality was the norm.
most men would have male lovers.
ever since the world started.
Friday, November 25, 2011
What methods were used to conduct research concerning the localization of behavior/brain relationships?
Which method do you feel is the most effective?What methods were used to conduct research concerning the localization of behavior/brain relationships?
I'd say probably studies that involve MRI's.eye makeup pictures
I'd say probably studies that involve MRI's.
Do you think long distance relationships could work?
If you're in one, explain how you two stay close to one another.
I am talking to this guy on the internet that I havent met yet and he is serious about a potential relationship. Forget the fact that he could be a psycho killer, is it worth giving it a try?Do you think long distance relationships could work?
I really think the worst part in a LDR is missing someone you love so much. Sometimes it's really sad.
But concerning the rest of it, it's very similar to a ';regular'; relationship. You must trust your bf/gf, you must care for each other and for the relationship, you must keep in touch, you can't cheat on them, you must share your things and feelings. No BIG differences at all.
When people live close to their bfs/gfs they tend to have the ';illusion'; that everything is alright and ';under control';. Unfortunately, we know it isn't true. Close or not that close, we always have to make efforts to keep a nice and healthy love relationship, or it fails.
So, don't let distance ruin your relationship, follow your heart (don't listen to losers and jerks), remember love worths it.
I wish you happiness.
:)Do you think long distance relationships could work?
With all the technology out there to keep people connected, long distance relationships work better than they used to, however before getting involved in a relationship, you should really get to know more about a person. If you suspect they could be a psycho killer, then there's a good chance you don't know the person well enough to start a relationship with them. Just keep in mind that anything that sounds too good to be true is, and those ';perfect'; personas you run across are the ones you need to watch out for.
I was in a long distance relationship with someone I meet online and we was together for 4 years. I wouldn't recommend a long distance relationship especially with someone you meet online. I wish I never dated my ex and wasted 4 years on top of that I was young and naive when we started dating but I am telling you don't do it.
It's different if you was dating him and he moved but he doesn't live near you now and y'all haven't started dating I say don't start dating him long distance is hard and people tend to lie and cheat when they are far from their mate.
Yes, they can work, but only under ONE condition: that they will not remain long distance in perpetuity. There HAS to be a way for it to NOT be long distance for too long. You stay close by talking on the phone or chatting on the internet frequently, but more importantly, by sharing similar interests and values. But even then, you have to be together one day, or you are wasting your time.
I would be extra, extra cautious, however, about someone who is specifically looking for a relationship. It usually means they have proven incapable of making a real-life relationship work, or that they have poor social skills. Desperate people seek love online.
But I happen to be proof that online relationships CAN work, but four things:
1. We had VERY similar values and interests.
2. Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we met. It was an accident, and that meant we could be totally honest from the beginning about who we were and what we were like. We were JUST pen pals. One thing just led to another.
3. We spent some time together in person before committing to anything. If you can't do that, you can't tell if you are compatible.
4. And I was at a moment in my life where I was flexible enough to move and make it so our relationship was NOT long distant anymore. We were apart for only about four months. Then I finished my degree and moved to where she lived and we gave it a try!
We've been happily married now for almost nine years.
If you decide to meet the guy, do it in public and with a friend.
Good luck!
Well i've been a couple and it takes lots of work.Its the same as any other relationship; trust and honesty. Talk everyday, reassure them that you care and would never hurt them (and vice versa). But sometimes it just isn't worth it. For me, it wasn't cause he couldn't handle being apart... We ended up drifting apart. It depends on the amount of love you guys have for each other, if he really loves and you really love him. Things could work.
I was in one with a solider, he was stationed elsewhere but I couldn't leave cause I was still in school. He ended up being unfaithful. But thats just us, it truly depends on what he truly feels.
im not actually in a real relationship but me and this guy both really like eachother .. i have known him for 2 years yet never met him.. but he is so not a killer.. its addicting and its hard to let go.. just talk all the time to one another and make sure you keep up the spice and all within the convos.. yes.. give it a try..just be careful.. but its fun :)
I live in So. Cal and was dating my old high school gf who just happened to have established her life in Missouri.
It was good for about a year, but the plane tickets got to be expensive and there was no progression in our relationship as a normal one should.
She and I had an agreement... We would go on dating whomever we wanted, but when it came to us, she and/or I had priority over anybody else. Meaning if I had a date lined up and it turned out she was able to fly in for the weekend, all my plans were canceled and I went to pick her up at the airport and so it was with her too.
Even with an agreement like that, the most self confident person would eventually start to be bothered about hearing about other dates.
But she didn't want to move out here to California and I wasn't going to move to Missouri. Saying goodbye was the hardest thing I ever had to do.
I would suggest you don't go down that path unless one of you is willing to eventually move to be with the other. Oh and also if he's not an axe murderer.
They fail most of the time, but they can work too.
I met my wife online. We talked through IMs for a couple days, then on the phone (sometimes all day long thanks to Skype and unlimited calling plans). Phone / webcam sex kept things from being too dull. I flew to visit her about 3 months later and we clicked in real life just as well as we did online. We rented a house together after a few weeks and I immigrated to her country.
Having money and the freedom to travel / move is a must however.
well im in a long distance relationship and its our 4th month anniversary this sunday but it does help that i met and hung out with him b4 we got together and every channce i get i go and see him ... which is pretty often because my family loves going where he lives..
yes it will work easily .. if u really love him then don't be worry about distance. my friend is in love with pakistani guy and they love to eacother very well and my friend will go to pakistan in end of 2009 to meet him and will get marry .............. so don't be worry it will work if ur love is true
The relationship through the internet is not real it's fake because you didn't know him or see or meet him the real one is when you meet him face to face and be close to him i don't believe in internet relationship
I was in one, ended up marrying her.
Short version of story. We went to the same high school, she moved out of state. We kept in touch, I moved in with her, we got married.
Keeping in touch helps a lot and trust is a must.
I find it quite amusing your asking this question considering your profile states you are a Psychology student and not at all interested in finding True Love over the internet.
i tried that, talked for over a year and then i moved to the area and he never wanted to see me, he got a gf. got my heart broke, didn't know it was possible online but it is.
forget about long distance
don't you want to be next to the person who is suppose
be with you when possible?
It is not a real relationship until you two meet.
Well, I've been in many long distant relationships.
For me, they weren't that bad.
They don't usually work out. no.
no.
give it a go and just see what happens. good luck. xxx
I am talking to this guy on the internet that I havent met yet and he is serious about a potential relationship. Forget the fact that he could be a psycho killer, is it worth giving it a try?Do you think long distance relationships could work?
I really think the worst part in a LDR is missing someone you love so much. Sometimes it's really sad.
But concerning the rest of it, it's very similar to a ';regular'; relationship. You must trust your bf/gf, you must care for each other and for the relationship, you must keep in touch, you can't cheat on them, you must share your things and feelings. No BIG differences at all.
When people live close to their bfs/gfs they tend to have the ';illusion'; that everything is alright and ';under control';. Unfortunately, we know it isn't true. Close or not that close, we always have to make efforts to keep a nice and healthy love relationship, or it fails.
So, don't let distance ruin your relationship, follow your heart (don't listen to losers and jerks), remember love worths it.
I wish you happiness.
:)Do you think long distance relationships could work?
With all the technology out there to keep people connected, long distance relationships work better than they used to, however before getting involved in a relationship, you should really get to know more about a person. If you suspect they could be a psycho killer, then there's a good chance you don't know the person well enough to start a relationship with them. Just keep in mind that anything that sounds too good to be true is, and those ';perfect'; personas you run across are the ones you need to watch out for.
I was in a long distance relationship with someone I meet online and we was together for 4 years. I wouldn't recommend a long distance relationship especially with someone you meet online. I wish I never dated my ex and wasted 4 years on top of that I was young and naive when we started dating but I am telling you don't do it.
It's different if you was dating him and he moved but he doesn't live near you now and y'all haven't started dating I say don't start dating him long distance is hard and people tend to lie and cheat when they are far from their mate.
Yes, they can work, but only under ONE condition: that they will not remain long distance in perpetuity. There HAS to be a way for it to NOT be long distance for too long. You stay close by talking on the phone or chatting on the internet frequently, but more importantly, by sharing similar interests and values. But even then, you have to be together one day, or you are wasting your time.
I would be extra, extra cautious, however, about someone who is specifically looking for a relationship. It usually means they have proven incapable of making a real-life relationship work, or that they have poor social skills. Desperate people seek love online.
But I happen to be proof that online relationships CAN work, but four things:
1. We had VERY similar values and interests.
2. Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we met. It was an accident, and that meant we could be totally honest from the beginning about who we were and what we were like. We were JUST pen pals. One thing just led to another.
3. We spent some time together in person before committing to anything. If you can't do that, you can't tell if you are compatible.
4. And I was at a moment in my life where I was flexible enough to move and make it so our relationship was NOT long distant anymore. We were apart for only about four months. Then I finished my degree and moved to where she lived and we gave it a try!
We've been happily married now for almost nine years.
If you decide to meet the guy, do it in public and with a friend.
Good luck!
Well i've been a couple and it takes lots of work.Its the same as any other relationship; trust and honesty. Talk everyday, reassure them that you care and would never hurt them (and vice versa). But sometimes it just isn't worth it. For me, it wasn't cause he couldn't handle being apart... We ended up drifting apart. It depends on the amount of love you guys have for each other, if he really loves and you really love him. Things could work.
I was in one with a solider, he was stationed elsewhere but I couldn't leave cause I was still in school. He ended up being unfaithful. But thats just us, it truly depends on what he truly feels.
im not actually in a real relationship but me and this guy both really like eachother .. i have known him for 2 years yet never met him.. but he is so not a killer.. its addicting and its hard to let go.. just talk all the time to one another and make sure you keep up the spice and all within the convos.. yes.. give it a try..just be careful.. but its fun :)
I live in So. Cal and was dating my old high school gf who just happened to have established her life in Missouri.
It was good for about a year, but the plane tickets got to be expensive and there was no progression in our relationship as a normal one should.
She and I had an agreement... We would go on dating whomever we wanted, but when it came to us, she and/or I had priority over anybody else. Meaning if I had a date lined up and it turned out she was able to fly in for the weekend, all my plans were canceled and I went to pick her up at the airport and so it was with her too.
Even with an agreement like that, the most self confident person would eventually start to be bothered about hearing about other dates.
But she didn't want to move out here to California and I wasn't going to move to Missouri. Saying goodbye was the hardest thing I ever had to do.
I would suggest you don't go down that path unless one of you is willing to eventually move to be with the other. Oh and also if he's not an axe murderer.
They fail most of the time, but they can work too.
I met my wife online. We talked through IMs for a couple days, then on the phone (sometimes all day long thanks to Skype and unlimited calling plans). Phone / webcam sex kept things from being too dull. I flew to visit her about 3 months later and we clicked in real life just as well as we did online. We rented a house together after a few weeks and I immigrated to her country.
Having money and the freedom to travel / move is a must however.
well im in a long distance relationship and its our 4th month anniversary this sunday but it does help that i met and hung out with him b4 we got together and every channce i get i go and see him ... which is pretty often because my family loves going where he lives..
yes it will work easily .. if u really love him then don't be worry about distance. my friend is in love with pakistani guy and they love to eacother very well and my friend will go to pakistan in end of 2009 to meet him and will get marry .............. so don't be worry it will work if ur love is true
The relationship through the internet is not real it's fake because you didn't know him or see or meet him the real one is when you meet him face to face and be close to him i don't believe in internet relationship
I was in one, ended up marrying her.
Short version of story. We went to the same high school, she moved out of state. We kept in touch, I moved in with her, we got married.
Keeping in touch helps a lot and trust is a must.
I find it quite amusing your asking this question considering your profile states you are a Psychology student and not at all interested in finding True Love over the internet.
i tried that, talked for over a year and then i moved to the area and he never wanted to see me, he got a gf. got my heart broke, didn't know it was possible online but it is.
forget about long distance
don't you want to be next to the person who is suppose
be with you when possible?
It is not a real relationship until you two meet.
Well, I've been in many long distant relationships.
For me, they weren't that bad.
They don't usually work out. no.
no.
give it a go and just see what happens. good luck. xxx
How do women without a father figure usually turn out,in terms of relationships?
How does this affected a woman's love life?Do they become more dominant or the opposite and why?How do women without a father figure usually turn out,in terms of relationships?
You know it really depends on the woman,
my mother grew up with no father figure in he rlife
and she has been happily married for 20 years.
It really depends on the individual and relationships they've had with the other people in their livesHow do women without a father figure usually turn out,in terms of relationships?
How you feel about yourself, your self esteem, your stability is more of an indicator of how well you will pick a partner. Not all women who have not been fathered have dysfunctional relationships. if you have pain around not having a father, deal with that in therapy. the more you can heal up, the better your relationships are.
BMH
There is no one specific way for this to turn out, it depends on the woman and the man she ends up dating. The only thing I would suspect is that, without as much experience dealing with the male mind while growing up, the woman may have to work harder to see eye to eye with her man. Some women who grow up without their father date men older than they are who are more dominant but that is certainly not universally true.
I can't speak for everyone, but I never had a dad and I guess I am a bit more akward around men. But I don't want to generalise, you need a lot more testemony from other women.
She'll be a lot like her mother, whether she likes it or not, and having much less experience with males, she won't be confident in relationships and either won't date at all or will be a bit slutty.
You know it really depends on the woman,
my mother grew up with no father figure in he rlife
and she has been happily married for 20 years.
It really depends on the individual and relationships they've had with the other people in their livesHow do women without a father figure usually turn out,in terms of relationships?
How you feel about yourself, your self esteem, your stability is more of an indicator of how well you will pick a partner. Not all women who have not been fathered have dysfunctional relationships. if you have pain around not having a father, deal with that in therapy. the more you can heal up, the better your relationships are.
BMH
There is no one specific way for this to turn out, it depends on the woman and the man she ends up dating. The only thing I would suspect is that, without as much experience dealing with the male mind while growing up, the woman may have to work harder to see eye to eye with her man. Some women who grow up without their father date men older than they are who are more dominant but that is certainly not universally true.
I can't speak for everyone, but I never had a dad and I guess I am a bit more akward around men. But I don't want to generalise, you need a lot more testemony from other women.
She'll be a lot like her mother, whether she likes it or not, and having much less experience with males, she won't be confident in relationships and either won't date at all or will be a bit slutty.
Long distance relationships: how do you make them work and make them a short distance relationship?
I am from chicago and met the greates girl from Detroit. We will spend the next 5 months togeth but don't know where we will end up after then with eternships and moving. What should we do? She, to me, is the greatest girl anywhere!Long distance relationships: how do you make them work and make them a short distance relationship?
Call her or email her everyday. And let her call you too. Don't forget holidays, try to visit her every so often, and try to laugh a lot! Your sense of humor will improve once you've endured hardship, and it will definitely ease the pain of being apart. Send her cute postcards signed by hunky celebrities to cheer her up and provoke her to reciprocate. And make sure you always tell her what's on your mind. Talking to each other is so important.
Good luck!Long distance relationships: how do you make them work and make them a short distance relationship?
Either you move over or she move over when you guys finish school.. But before that, a lot of communication and being very committed to speak to each other at least once a day. That's what my friends did for 2 years and they fly to see each other whenever possible and now they are married :-)
Call her or email her everyday. And let her call you too. Don't forget holidays, try to visit her every so often, and try to laugh a lot! Your sense of humor will improve once you've endured hardship, and it will definitely ease the pain of being apart. Send her cute postcards signed by hunky celebrities to cheer her up and provoke her to reciprocate. And make sure you always tell her what's on your mind. Talking to each other is so important.
Good luck!Long distance relationships: how do you make them work and make them a short distance relationship?
Either you move over or she move over when you guys finish school.. But before that, a lot of communication and being very committed to speak to each other at least once a day. That's what my friends did for 2 years and they fly to see each other whenever possible and now they are married :-)
Why are kids these days in such a rush to become entangled in relationships?
What is so good about finding a ';significant other?'; The only thing I can think of is sex, but apparently not everyone is interested in sex.
So what is the allure to finding a boyfriend or a girlfriend?Why are kids these days in such a rush to become entangled in relationships?
um, falling in love?
duh.Why are kids these days in such a rush to become entangled in relationships?
you see the movies. Where the guy and girl fall madly in love and are happy all the time. Who doesn't want someone who you love unconditionally and just to be happy. Sex isn't that alluring to most kids, the immature ones yeah but that isn't the main reason why we want a someone to love. Why wouldn't anyone not want someone to love and care for?
someone to turn to when no one else will listen to you. Someone to keep you warm. Someone to talk to when you're board. Someone who will hold you while you cry. Someone to share your life with.
There are many more reasons but they are just a few
-being able to talk to someone about anything
-knowing someone in the world finds you to be attractive
-being loved by that person no matter what
-a feeling of assurance
cuz young kids think theyre so grown up at like age 12 lol.
its so stupid,i dont get it either,i guess they all want to act 17 and most 17 year olds are dating.
the idea of having a BF or GF is an allure itself.
So what is the allure to finding a boyfriend or a girlfriend?Why are kids these days in such a rush to become entangled in relationships?
um, falling in love?
duh.Why are kids these days in such a rush to become entangled in relationships?
you see the movies. Where the guy and girl fall madly in love and are happy all the time. Who doesn't want someone who you love unconditionally and just to be happy. Sex isn't that alluring to most kids, the immature ones yeah but that isn't the main reason why we want a someone to love. Why wouldn't anyone not want someone to love and care for?
someone to turn to when no one else will listen to you. Someone to keep you warm. Someone to talk to when you're board. Someone who will hold you while you cry. Someone to share your life with.
There are many more reasons but they are just a few
-being able to talk to someone about anything
-knowing someone in the world finds you to be attractive
-being loved by that person no matter what
-a feeling of assurance
cuz young kids think theyre so grown up at like age 12 lol.
its so stupid,i dont get it either,i guess they all want to act 17 and most 17 year olds are dating.
the idea of having a BF or GF is an allure itself.
What is the policy for relationships between faculty and students?
Is there any kind of punishment? Is it illegal? Mostly talking about in the UK but any US comments are welcome :o) Good to have diversity! xxxWhat is the policy for relationships between faculty and students?
It happens - so what? No there no punishments. It's all between adults (in the UK) so there really is no problem. This goes for gay and lesbian relationships as much as straight. In one I know of the student was definitely exploiting the lecturer, but didn't gain anything out of it academically, just power tripping I guess.What is the policy for relationships between faculty and students?
In the US....
It's obviously not illegal if you are both adults (I assume we are talking about college here). Policies vary from university to university, but I know that in many cases they are very liberal provided that the relationship isn't going on while the faculty member is in some direct position of authority over the student.
This is actually surprisingly common in graduate school since you are working so closely with faculty. However, it also happens with undergrads and in many cases meaningful relationships result. I personally now a guy who ended marrying one of his professors from his undergrad.
It's not illegal - I'm presuming this is university so the student is of age.
That said, it's a risky business and the uni will NOT approve. If the university finds out then the staff member may run the risk of losing their job.
It's like doctors and nurses having relationships with their patients...it's unprofessional.
It is not illegal in university you are all consenting adults.
In one dept at my uni, I have seen a lot of relationships between tutors and students, usually 40 yr old tutors having affairs with young 18 yr olds whom in turn usually get good marks!!!!!
So no not illegal, but prob very unethical!!
As long as you're over 18 the only bad thing that can happen IF and WHEN you're found out, is the faculty member WILL lose his job.. you can count on that.. but you can't count on being found out... with a bit of discretion you can pull it off if you manage to keep it under wraps untill after you graduate from whatever institution is concerned here
It's usually frowned upon: it's not appropriate for those in a position of power within a university to have personal relationships with their pupils. Punishments could include rustication for the pupil, and disciplinary action for the member of staff concerned.
The university you're attending will have its own policy. It's certainly frowned upon as isn't professional, but I don't think it's actually illegal.
As long as the faculty member is not marking the students work it is not illegal and should not cause any problems.
outside the place it is your buissiness by law.
It happens - so what? No there no punishments. It's all between adults (in the UK) so there really is no problem. This goes for gay and lesbian relationships as much as straight. In one I know of the student was definitely exploiting the lecturer, but didn't gain anything out of it academically, just power tripping I guess.What is the policy for relationships between faculty and students?
In the US....
It's obviously not illegal if you are both adults (I assume we are talking about college here). Policies vary from university to university, but I know that in many cases they are very liberal provided that the relationship isn't going on while the faculty member is in some direct position of authority over the student.
This is actually surprisingly common in graduate school since you are working so closely with faculty. However, it also happens with undergrads and in many cases meaningful relationships result. I personally now a guy who ended marrying one of his professors from his undergrad.
It's not illegal - I'm presuming this is university so the student is of age.
That said, it's a risky business and the uni will NOT approve. If the university finds out then the staff member may run the risk of losing their job.
It's like doctors and nurses having relationships with their patients...it's unprofessional.
It is not illegal in university you are all consenting adults.
In one dept at my uni, I have seen a lot of relationships between tutors and students, usually 40 yr old tutors having affairs with young 18 yr olds whom in turn usually get good marks!!!!!
So no not illegal, but prob very unethical!!
As long as you're over 18 the only bad thing that can happen IF and WHEN you're found out, is the faculty member WILL lose his job.. you can count on that.. but you can't count on being found out... with a bit of discretion you can pull it off if you manage to keep it under wraps untill after you graduate from whatever institution is concerned here
It's usually frowned upon: it's not appropriate for those in a position of power within a university to have personal relationships with their pupils. Punishments could include rustication for the pupil, and disciplinary action for the member of staff concerned.
The university you're attending will have its own policy. It's certainly frowned upon as isn't professional, but I don't think it's actually illegal.
As long as the faculty member is not marking the students work it is not illegal and should not cause any problems.
outside the place it is your buissiness by law.
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